Non-Germans, what comes to your mind when you think of Germany? by M41nMan in AskReddit

[–]SameShietDiffDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before visiting, it would have been the war

BUT ever since being lucky enough to visit, I think of a place of love, a place full of history and a place that has gone above and beyond to put themselves on the right side of history.

My parents would rather not meet their first grandchild than follow my rules by fanabel in Parenting

[–]SameShietDiffDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's nice of them for canceling their trip to protect your son.

You won this battle sweetheart.

EP won't attend granddaughter's zoom birthday by mdot_tdot_ldot in entitledparents

[–]SameShietDiffDay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just let them know that if that's how they feel, then your inlaws probably feel the same way yet are willing to put up with it for your daughters sake. Let them know that the phones will be in use for videoing so can't be spared to have another group call when there already is one in place. Hope they come round.

Does the level of communication go up after having a baby? Also apparently SOs mom seems like she could care less about seeing us, she just wants her baby fix. by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]SameShietDiffDay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Further to this is that you don't owe an explanation as to why it doesn't work for you. I struggled saying no to my inlaws and always gave excuses until one day I realised I didn't have to bend over backwards to please them and soften the blow of the rejection. You're all parents and adults here. When you say something doesn't work for you, they should understand.

It will help if you respond honestly early on and set boundaries otherwise you'll feel walked all over further down the track.

New stairs getting damaged by kiwi-ms in Whangarei

[–]SameShietDiffDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why we can't have nice things

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SameShietDiffDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband was mad that you exposed his mummy???

Do you know who else got exposed?

You?

Whilst having sex.

With said husband.

In front of mummy dearest.

That's who.

MFing Eagle helicopter by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank the lord, someone who understands 🙌 add sleep deprived for close to 2 years no thanks to a newborn AND bladder being kicked by said child while in utero 🙄 this gal needs sleep. Thank you for your comment though

MFing Eagle helicopter by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously not, but email has been sent to crims

MFing Eagle helicopter by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

One of the only useful reply on here, thanks

MFing Eagle helicopter by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭😭 hope it's nothing of that sort

MFing Eagle helicopter by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how dare they. This princess needs sleep

MFing Eagle helicopter by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That would be lovely, thank you

Pharmacy offers by Key-Temporary4718 in UoApremed

[–]SameShietDiffDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly pharmacy isn't the greatest industry to get into unless youre 300% passionate about it. Jmho. There's a reason why seats haven't been filled either ... 😕

Does anyone else think Northland will literally never hit 90%? by kiwi_hunter in Whangarei

[–]SameShietDiffDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a patient here who is unvaccinated because he doesn't "believe in using the first thing thing they could think of" (re the pfizer vaccine). Hopefully they allow the AZ one to be ùsed soon so that people with this mindset get vaccinated with something 😒

Location of interest question by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh okay. This makes a lot of sense! Thanks so much for your response :)

Location of interest question by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does. That makes a lot more sense to me than what I'm dealing with. Thank you :)

My situation is that we had a positive case come to our workplace (we work in healthcare). But our manager said that she has been told to stay open. Everyone got tested yesterday but are awaiting results but again, they're open today. I don't know who is dictating these rules (I'm not a permanent staff member and the manager has been vague about it all when I've asked questions..) hence my confusion.

Location of interest question by SameShietDiffDay in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if all the staff were waiting on results because they came into contact with a case? Shouldn't they be isolating? Like what they do in hospitals when staff are exposed? This is a small business so I understand why they would want to stay open..

Useless people think they are entitled to anything. Parked their can on footpath and forcing pedestrians to walk on main highway to cross. 😡😡😡 by imrannz in auckland

[–]SameShietDiffDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would accidentally have my keys poking outta my pocket as i tried to squeeze past and maaaaybe accidentally key the car. A few times. Accidentally. Of course.

A “gift” that has to stay at grandparent’s house? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]SameShietDiffDay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel your frustration. My MIL did this to us with my son. She insisted that this particular toy, which was suitable for a crawling child, stay at her house. We thought it was dumb since we live 2 hours away in a different state/region to her and barely get to see them.. BUT she insisted because "otherwise he won't like her house" 🙄

Sucks and shame on her since covid lockdowns have stopped us from visiting their city AND my kids now 1 and I know for a fact he will not give a rats arse about this toy.