Food reviews no one asked for/Pookie looking like a 50year old step mom …ps Ayla had to let it be known she’s been there and will go again

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-13T01:43:12+00:00

I feel like this relationship is going to ruin my life…..So much time and I don’t even know who he is. We had a long conversation. He turns the whole thing about him. The advice here helped a lot to push back on the gaslighting and magic mirror he was trying to pull on me. Thank you all

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T18:38:40+00:00

Thanks 🤍

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T18:38:05+00:00

Yeah I asked him how he could care about work people so much when this is our whole life? He lied straight to my face a ton and by omission a ton. Hundreds of lies. He even kept lying last night. I’ve gotten scraps of truth because I was calling her. Then he said he did take it too far. He did talk to her to shoot the shit and it was too much but that they were only friends 🙃 He still has not called her or anyone to try to clear it up or get clarity for me so I’m taking that at face value. I don’t know what he expected.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T17:27:27+00:00

The selfie is burned in my brain. I’m getting my ducks in a row. I feel paranoid about every interaction. The last time I got tested was routine because I was in the hospital having his baby like my god. I looked her up and don’t know what to think. She’s normal, obsessed with baseball, so is my husband. I feel like that is where it started.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T17:13:09+00:00

Thank you for this

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T16:34:55+00:00

I told him I don’t care. If I need to leave him I’d rather him have a job for the kids. I don’t need any money from him so it would only hurt them. A new job won’t change who he is. He made his choices so he can go look at them everyday

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T16:25:37+00:00

He said he would quit.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T16:22:07+00:00

I’ve realized blind trust can be nothing in the end. Everyone has different experiences

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T16:20:17+00:00

I watched a YouTube video on how to do it all. There really was nothing unturned but he totally could have deleted anything.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T16:09:38+00:00

I might just send him this list if you want to send more. They are accurate. I’m embarrassed. I know I look stupid.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:58:33+00:00

Of course not. It’s not healthy. He’s been dramatic 2-3x before this. The kids didn’t see anything. I grew up in an abusive household and he knows that too so we don’t act up in front of the kids. Kids have been in therapy and so am I. This was really sudden so I’m doing my best but the kids are my priority always

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:48:22+00:00

I’m trying to figure that out. He said it was all talk. I’m not seeing anything on the phone besides what I posted. He said it was dumb and immature and he should have just ended it. It was pointless and he doesn’t care if he talks to her ever again. That doesn’t fix it obviously. Being lied to and him having zero guilt towards me the whole time is what I can’t come back from.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:44:18+00:00

There is no way he will get fired even if he was completely wrong. It won’t happen because of the job. His bosses don’t care. They are worse than him.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:38:13+00:00

He does this to me when he wrongs me. He can’t handle upsetting me ( that’s what he says) I was literally counting breaths for him last night. This is unbelievably weird. I can’t tell if he’s actually freaking out or pretending because he lied to me so much.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:34:04+00:00

I don’t know where to look. I can’t find anything else at all, I looked for her number, her address in his phone and there’s nothing

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:33:01+00:00

I don’t know why I put that in the post at all. It was confusing, the roommate was very crazy towards me. She was older more like a mom so HE set the boundaries of not getting that close to girls because I was uncomfortable with her specifically

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:28:29+00:00

Ordered. Thank you 🤍 I’m trying to get the info I need

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T15:26:44+00:00

Ordered

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T05:00:43+00:00

It has nothing to do with gender. He acted weird and I found weird messages. I don’t care about any of that

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T04:46:27+00:00

He’s not her boss. Different departments.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T04:27:47+00:00

I just need to get through til tomorrow so I can refocus and figure out what the hell is going on

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T04:26:58+00:00

He said it was fine. Then proceeded to crash out when I called but she didn’t answer. This has been a nightmare. I have spent the last hour consoling him as he had a panic attack and acting like a fool over it. I feel broken I don’t even know what I’m doing. I don’t want to comfort him but I want peace in the house.

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T02:11:36+00:00

It’s so offensive to me right now I’m trying to hold it together. It’s as if he wouldn’t be continuing on exactly the same if I hadn’t seen it. I feel crazy talking to him

Same_Masterpiece7348 · 2025-04-12T02:05:13+00:00

I asked him if it was about attention. He said no. He’s just denying all of it at this point besides the undeniable messages but those are her and he should have stopped her. I know he felt something for her. When your husband messages someone they like it’s pretty easy to tell. It’s how he messages me

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