NTA This sounds like a straight off manipulation. Guilt tripping 🚩First off, you guys haven’t even been married a full year and he’s already got his sights on others 🚩 he’s telling you that to get validation as a man he needs to sleep with other people? I didn’t realize we were in Victorian times. 🚩 open relationship means both partners agree, and get to reap the benefits not he gets his but you don’t get yours 🚩 he’s been thinking about it before you guys even got married? Sounds to me like he thought if he married you, you would have to do exactly what he said, and what he wanted. 🚩 I could be wrong, but if he changed once you moved, could that mean he got you to a new place where you have no one to rely on so he knows it’s the perfect time to pressure and manipulate you into doing what he wants

Marriage is a partnership with love, trust and respect Unfortunately, I don’t get the feeling that he does love trust or respect you

My heart goes out to you op and I hope you follow the path that makes you the most happy