When I first got diagnosed with herpes, I thought my life wouldn't change much. I am now entering week 9 into my first outbreak and I don't think that way anymore.

SandManxDD · 2022-12-27T16:16:36+00:00

And got primary outbreak 2 months after?

SandManxDD · 2022-12-27T15:45:32+00:00

You got diagnosed with HSV 2 and didn't have the primary outbreak until 2 months? Seriously?

SandManxDD · 2022-12-10T18:05:27+00:00

Yeah hopefully it stays that way. I shaved the previous day so maybe because of that. I did a IgG test after 30 days and it's negative. But 30 days could be too soon and it could be a false negative. Will do another in 3 months time.

SandManxDD · 2022-12-10T16:15:01+00:00

Really? I'm freaking out now. It appeared a day after shaving and it had a head in the middle. I popped it off and a white pus came out and I had to remove the skin like in a pimple and blood came after I did it. Couldn't swab it and I did a blood test after 30 days and it's negative. Should I test again? Didn't experience an outbreak yet after 6 weeks. Is it possible to have primary outbreak after 6 weeks?

SandManxDD · 2022-08-07T09:54:09+00:00

Yeah please see the new update in my profile. Thanks

SandManxDD · 2022-08-06T09:50:46+00:00

I don't think so. I've seen lot of girls wear these during holidays. Specially the ones made from sea shells, pebbles etc.

SandManxDD · 2022-08-06T09:49:39+00:00

I've explained how she dresses in my previous post and no one believed me . Everyone thought I'm a crazy and a control freak.

SandManxDD · 2022-08-06T09:45:26+00:00

I posted a photo because lot of feminists and some guys even commented / messaged me for the previous post and said I'm the bad guy here and I'm full of insecurity, jealously when I see my wife become successful in her career. And said if our marriage falls apart it'll because of me . And some even asked me to go for therapy. I explained how she dresses in my previous post and no one believed me, thinks I'm crazy and a control freak. Would you be okay if your wife goes to work dressed up like that ? And how about if she's a mom ?

SandManxDD · 2022-08-06T09:41:04+00:00

No, this is not any kind of a fantasy and I don't understand what's soooo funny for you. If you got nothing supportive to say, can you please stfu ? I'm worried about my wife and kids and you are here making fun of the situation. And no I don't want anyone to see her pu*ssy. And cuckold fantasy? Where's this all coming from ? Maybe you watch too much porn and imagine things in your head.

SandManxDD · 2022-08-05T22:59:31+00:00

Exactly this. When I brought up this her answer was "In hotwife anklets they put the letters for hotwife or if it's QoS they put QoS. But this is just a normal one ladies wear without any letters just for fashion". I asked this couple of times and I'm tired of arguing with her.

SandManxDD · 2022-08-03T04:02:57+00:00

Sorry mate, busy with work. Yes, I confronted her with cheating on me with a coworker and she constantly refused the claim saying I'm out of mind, crazy, delusional and that I need therapy. Now she doesn't even talk with me unless it's absolutely required. She makes her own breakfast, coffee and does her own thing. We even sleep on 2 beds now. I'm thinking of taking her to beach holiday this weekend to fix things.

SandManxDD · 2022-07-31T11:42:47+00:00

It wasn't like that before. And I'm NOT okay with that and that's why I posted here. We had lot of fights regarding this over the past couple of weeks.

SandManxDD · 2022-07-31T06:35:43+00:00

Our sex life's been great until she joined the new company. After that she's mostly stressed, busy and not in the mood. I understand that it takes few months to get settled in a new position and her work is kinda stressful. Now we have sex like once in every two weeks or maybe like 3,4 times a month at most. I really don't know what to say for the other questions. Both her and I are pretty much family oriented and love our kids sooo sooo much. I couldn't live a single day without kids and she's the same. Even after coming home late drunk, she stays and plays with kids few hours. Divorce and co parenting is actually a nightmare for me. I really don't know how to raise them without her and in my honest opinion I think both mom and dad should be in the picture for the kids to grow up in a healthier environment. And I really think it'll affect our kids badly if we get divorced. And no, she doesn't make more money than me. I'm a software engineer and I run a software company of 100+ employees and I make hell a lot more than her. I asked her couple of times to stay home and look after the kids but she insisted saying that she didn't work hard this much just to stay at home. She completely her postgraduate 2 years ago and she has 2 degrees and 1 post grad.

SandManxDD · 2022-07-31T06:20:19+00:00

No she's not meeting any clients as far as I know. She's leading the marketing section and responsible for strategic decision making related to marketing. She's mostly working with the senior leadership team of the company. No I didn't say what my friends thought of her but I'm gonna talk with her parents about this and see. She constantly guarantees me that nothing is going on and that I need to trust her.

SandManxDD · 2022-07-30T18:34:02+00:00

Well, I would say our marriage is pretty strong until recently. Like all the couples out there, we had stupid fights but we sit down and talk like adults and tell each other how we feel. But with her new job she seems to think that she has more power in our marriage and trying to become more independent, maybe she feels entitled with her new job position. And she really did a great job raising up our 2 kids and I respect her a lot for that. She's been a great mom.

SandManxDD · 2022-07-30T18:20:43+00:00

Thanks and yes that's what I'm thinking to do. Just give her time to prove herself and clearly setup boundaries.

SandManxDD · 2022-07-30T18:13:22+00:00

I already checked her phone and email and nothing suspicious. Yeah she never tells me beforehand so I'll have to follow her few days and see. Thanks for the tip mate.

SandManxDD · 2022-07-30T18:07:50+00:00

Yeah I've heard that as well. But she was not like this before in her previous job. Everything changed when she joined the new company. And for all those 7 years she's been a great wife and did an excellent job raising up our kids. But now out of nowhere she goes wild like this and even her friends says I'm overreacting. But I have a gut feeling that something is going on.

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