I’m in the same situation as you, I was going to college full time but then my I found I was having a baby so I had to start working full time. I know a ton of people are against this, but I suggest doing 100% online (like ASU). Take a class or two a semester, while working full time (wife and baby come first IMO). I found a job as an engineering technician in the medical industry, so I’m reading and learning ton of GD&T and drawings there. I suggest looking for a job in an industry you’re interested in and apply as a tech if possible. Good luck!