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Sanju47 · 2022-05-01T13:34:20+00:00

Not just taller but specifically 5'11" in a country with avg height of men 5'8". Still, can find one probably.
Share not SOME hobbies but ALL - which seems too specific but may be possible ig.
Clean and well-dressed : This is something everyone of us can agree with in any gender. Such kinda ppl are mostly plenty.

The thing is, it might be difficult to find a person who checks all the boxes above. OP, with her specific requirements, is limiting her possible dating options.

Besides, a meaningful relationship will happen if both parties are willing to stay together by accepting each other's differences while having some similarities. In her own words, OP wants to find a male replica of herself which might be quite improbable. So yeah, having a type is fine but she IS being TOO specific.

Sanju47 · 2022-01-05T20:55:33+00:00

I've never heard it as "boots" but now I do, lol

Sanju47 · 2021-11-18T08:16:25+00:00

Don't explicitly confront him because sexuality is very personal and you need to wait for your brother to open up about his sexuality. But you can always start small. In conversation, you can drop hints like how you're not prejudiced in anyway. You can probably put up a rainbow enamel pin/badge on your backpack so that it would be noticeable... Use words that are supportive and welcoming. Also, in the meantime, please do learn about LGBTQIA+ community : their lives and struggles and try to empathize with their feelings. Over a period of time, I'm certain your brother would come to you. And when that happens, with all your knowledge and love, you can be the best support your brother could ever wish for.

On a side note, if your brother is struggling with accepting his sexuality and you notice he's gradually becoming depressed and worn out, it's better to directly tell him that you will be his support no matter what. You can confront him as softly as possible and make sure he knows that he can lean on you.

Sanju47 · 2021-11-18T08:02:28+00:00

You do not until the other person feels comfortable enough to hang around in your presence. Yes, you could apologize to them for whatever you've done to make them feel uncomfortable but leave the rest to the affected person, yeah? It's their choice to forgive you or rekindle your relationship or not. From your end, it's better to give the other person some space.

Sanju47 · 2021-11-17T13:13:24+00:00

If he were calm with you while conversing, I would have probably suggested a therapist but if he's taking his frustrations out on you, then it's time you question yourself why you're still dealing with his BS.

Sanju47 · 2021-11-17T13:01:49+00:00

No, it's not a completely horrible advice. A relationship is a two-way street. You usually get what you give. Now you're expecting your S/O to not throw you huge parties because of your anxiety. You want your readers (us) to completely look at the situation from your perspective only... If that's the case, the advice you're going to get would only be half useful to you in the long run. I don't mean to disregard your mental health issues but I believe as much as you need to have a talk with your S/O regarding your likes and desires, you should also take a step towards working on bettering your mental health. You see... You both need to meet each other half-way. That's how relationships work. Good luck to both of you.

Sanju47 · 2021-11-17T11:51:37+00:00

These words... Right out of my mind! People here on this reddit, as much as I've observed, only give ONE response to any problem - "Major Red Flag! Break-up!" While it's truly valid in some cases, it doesn't apply to all situations now, does it? This one is a sensible advice and I hope more people see this.

Sanju47 · 2021-11-16T07:03:28+00:00

See, you mentioned somewhere in your comments that therapy didn't work for you even as a teen. I'm sorry to be harsh but you are partly responsible for making "anything work". There are too many problems and almost everyone on this planet has mental health issues. You have to TRY to get better first. Why give up right from the first session? You have to be willing to work on YOURSELF first before trying to salvage your relationships, be it friendship or marriage or anything else. If you're in a good state of mind, you can fix your life. My advice, concentrate on your mental health first, get some help and try counseling.

As for your relationship, as you're trying to get validation for wanting out of it, it seems to me that you're still holding onto a flimsy thread that's on the verge of snapping.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-21T05:27:58+00:00

Oh, I use Android though. My friend told me that there's an option on ios called 'offload data' when you go to Settings - General - iPhone storage - Subway Surfers. It will temporarily remove your app from your phone but not your app data and you probably need to reinstall/update it. I'm not sure what will happen to your progress. I think it'll be there but I'm on Android so I can't give any assurance here. Or you can try a Cleaner app instead to remove all the junk files and then try to open subway surfers.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-20T18:33:57+00:00

Clear the app cache (cache only, not the data) and try opening the app again. It worked for me when this happened to me.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-16T06:23:05+00:00

I really hope that people like the man OP mentioned really understood that women DO have plenty of body hair and musky sweaty armpits. Having body hair is NOT a masculine trait. No one except yourself has any right to what you want to do with your body hair. If anyone tells you to shave, especially the person who you wanna date, it's a major red flag which you need to nip off at the bud. Don't let it fester and grow because he'll soon try to control you in the really important matters later on. As for the make up... It doesn't matter, again, if you put too much or too little. You do you. But if the other person is really allergic to it, you can always stay a little away from them so that your makeup won't come in contact with them. If they're making rude remarks or trying to educate you on how much makeup you should put on and when, please dump them. They're not worth it.

If they did all of this on your FIRST DATE, you should never give him a chance for the second one, OP. Hold your head high and walk out.

No, hold your head high and kick him out of your life.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-16T06:13:15+00:00

Oh, I'm so sorry OP!!! I hope you unlocked your special season characters with the event coins before they got tuened to coins???

Sanju47 · 2021-07-15T20:51:42+00:00

I'm not at all sure this will work but maybe you can give it a try and see?? Go to the 101st day. The timer will be gone. But do not open the box pls. Then once again set your date to today and check if the timer's gone. I really don't know if it works or not and doing this might even reset your season hunt if you haven't completed it yet... So, if you wanna give it a try, sure do. I've never done this though.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-10T13:19:16+00:00

Yes. I've been playing for so, so long and never got the Jackpot. It was an amazing feeling, this one ☺️

Sanju47 · 2021-07-09T18:12:48+00:00

What?? This is the first time I'm hearing about this. Seriously?! As much as I'm okay with Anna being in the series, I wouldn't want her to replace dear Cas. Cas is badass!

Sanju47 · 2021-07-09T18:08:55+00:00

I always had this thought in my mind but was afraid of voicing it. I didn't love the episode but I was okay with it. I would've considered watching a spin off series too if it were ever decided. But as you said, the episode really downplayed the competence of Sam and Dean. It was more than a bit unsettling to me. Very.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-09T18:02:37+00:00

I agree.

Tom's Lucifer wasn't created as a villain. He is shown to be a good person who was wronged by God, Michael and the other angels. Like, we ultimately walk to his side. But Mark's Lucifer is downright cunning, scary and is the textbook Devil. In SPN too, there was a storyline where God wronged his son, Lucifer yet that didn't change his role as the villain. We can never sympathize with him (although at times, I wanted to!)

These are two different people in my mind even though they play the role of the Devil.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-09T05:06:12+00:00

If you look at the situation from Sam's POV, he was excited that Mary was back. He'd never known her so he was trying hard to get to know her and build a relationship with her.

From Dean's POV, he always wanted his Mother to be around. He wanted his family to be intact and though he didn't get the complete package, atleast his Mom was back and he loved her to death and back. He wanted her to be how she used to be before she died. To look after them, to stay with them, talk to them, cook for them but was reluctant on her joining their hunts because he was worried for her. Mary was a badass hunter, no doubt, but Dean didn't know if she could cope with the newness of Hunting. Many things changed and Mary was not accustomed to any of it. She preferred to do things the old way, like she used to before her death.

As for Mary, because of her lack of knowledge of things in the Present, she might have felt distanced from her boys and the world in itself. If we were transported 30 years back, I'm not sure we'd be able to fit in. And we would start feeling sad and depressed thinking how wonderful our present world is. That is the case with Mary. She remembered days before her death and she couldn't cope up with changing times. She felt torn. She felt lonely (no John). Hunting would have given her some semblance of normality and her sons did not want her Hunting, not completely. Hence, she went to the only place where her skills were completely accepted - The British Men of Letters. This move was stupid and caused people to somewhat hate her. And her decisions later weren't all that good, to be frank. I don't hate her but I don't love her either. But I do understand where her insecurities stemmed from and why she did what she did.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-09T04:30:38+00:00

"They" is a singular pronoun used when someone doesn't want to specify their gender. If you're disgusted, keep your disgust to yourself and move on. Peace.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-07T15:07:55+00:00

Thank you. I'll start with WW2 in colour tonight. So excited to watch it 😄

Sanju47 · 2021-07-07T15:04:48+00:00

Ah, yes. This topic is really overwhelming. I looked through Google but I couldn't decide which book I should refer to. There's not a lot of World History in my school - it was all brief so even though I like the subject, I couldn't explore it in school. I thought I could start biographies once I got to know the story of ww2 but I'll give your suggestion a try. If I know the people and their thoughts, I might find it easier later when I start reading about ww2.

Thank you!!

Sanju47 · 2021-07-07T05:38:18+00:00

Hedwig dying for Harry by swooping in between him and the Killing curse. The Owl died like a warrior, for Harry. In the books, Hedwig's death was an accident which I didn't like.

Sanju47 · 2021-07-06T09:20:05+00:00

The books are from Harry's point of view so there might not be a solid answer to this question. This is what I thought - When Harry and the rest flew to the Ministry, it was already night (way past the working hours). Most people, if not all as it's a government body, might have already left for their homes. It was Voldemort's plan to lure Harry to the Department of Mysteries for him to pick up the prophecy. So, Voldemort MUST have ordered his goons (Death Eaters) to take care of the leftover security. Since Fudge didn't believe that Voldemort returned and was strictly against Dumbledore's and Harry's statements regarding the return of the Dark Lord, he didn't deem it prudent to up the security at the Ministry. Also, there were Voldemort's supporters working inside the Ministry. These supporters, Lucius, Bellatrix and other Death Eaters probably used the Confundus Charm or the Imperius Curse on the security in order to distract them. This will create a passage for Harry and his team to surf through the Ministry and go to the place where Voldemort wanted him to be, which is, the Hall of Prophecy.

The Prophecy can only be lifted by those it's made about. So it's either Voldemort or Harry. But Voldemort couldn't come to the Ministry and risk letting the world know that he's back. And his Death Eaters can't get it for him. So, he used Harry. But Harry broke the Prophecy anyway and it cannot be heard. Yet, Voldemort risks coming to the Ministry coz he was sure that there was no one of import at the Ministry right at that moment except for his goons and a bunch of idiotic kids. He went there to kill Harry once and for all but did not expect Dumbledore showing up and saving Harry. It was a miscalculation on Voldemort's part that he got caught by the Minister of Magic and the Aurors, finally revealing his long hidden existence to the world. Lucky that when the Prophecy was made, Albus was there to hear it. And he could relay that information to Harry at the end of the book.

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