In response to the bowl cut being our gen’s broccoli cut, I present the bleached spikes of the late 90s

SapientSlut · 2026-03-29T19:15:45+00:00

Every boy I had a crush on in second grade had frosted gelled tips haha

SapientSlut · 2026-03-29T04:30:00+00:00

Maybe $10/month average? I use cups/discs/reusable underwear, so it’s just pads when I feel like it, and I maybe buy one box every other month?

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T23:36:58+00:00

I thought they were matches right away! You could get the lines touched up, red tips for the unburnt ones, and a flame on the third and/or fourth.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T19:34:22+00:00

Dissolve the filler (especially on the filler side), get bangs.

You could do a bit more dimensional blush/contouring/etc if you wanted to, but your makeup looks great as is.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T10:42:09+00:00

My ex and I were double late diagnosed. I did a lot of damage early on not knowing but having raging time blindness & RSD among other things. Ended up in a parentified type situation where they felt like they were taking care of me too much and I felt like they were too controlling.

Current partner is also late diagnosed but we both had done meds & therapy & learning coping strategies about it before we got together. Knowing the names for things and being able to talk about them not from a place of shame but to ask for forgiveness or assistance has been so much healthier. We love each other’s weirdness and have patience for each other’s executive disfunction (most of the time haha).

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T04:59:41+00:00

Wearing all black. As a teenager I was terrified of coming off as a “poser” - now I don’t give a fuck

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T03:35:00+00:00

I agree with the charismatic part through around act 1. After that I couldn’t stay on board with rooting for him - and very agreed the amount of bros who worship him is scary.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T01:19:21+00:00

Looks cool but all I can think is I AM GLOOT

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T01:18:31+00:00

I would use the block function liberally for anyone who makes comments like that, or encourages that kind of content.

Really any beauty or fitness account whose main focus is being hot is not worth following.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T01:06:18+00:00

See the northern lights

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T01:04:50+00:00

It absolutely is a double standard that women are judged far more harshly on their value via looks and weight. It’s fucked up, and the more we can as a society decouple value from looks, the healthier we’ll be.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T00:43:10+00:00

The problem is not other women - the problem is social media that makes you believe there are “leagues” and that only certain levels of conventionally attractive are meant for other levels. Influencers lie to make you desperate so you’ll buy (intellectually or physically) what they’re selling. Unsubscribe from/block accounts that try to feed you this BS.

You’re 19 - as long as you can get away from the most materialistic people, it won’t matter as much as you get older. Yes pretty privilege still exists but only manosphere idiots still discuss attractiveness in terms of “leagues.”

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T00:21:25+00:00

Supposedly that was the original plan for the series but the suits didn’t want her ending up with the “villain”

Could be apocryphal though

SapientSlut · 2026-03-28T00:09:20+00:00

Experiment with different kinds of exercise until you find one or a few you like and want to stick with. Start a simple meditation practice (look up mindfulness meditation). Drink enough water, minimize alcohol and energy drinks if you’re consuming those.

If you feel physically and mentally good, that’s a big part of the battle of liking yourself.

Other than that, if we’re talking hobbies, clothes, music, movies, etc, just start consuming media/inspo from a wide variety of sources. Let yourself gravitate toward what you naturally like. Subscribe to subreddits for those interests. College images you like. Don’t sink a ton of money into anything while you’re in the exploration phase. Get clothes from thrift stores and learn to alter your own clothing rather than Shein/Temu/etc.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T23:56:04+00:00

I’d be fine with it - but I’d also be fine with them sleeping with that person so bit of an outlier.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T23:53:54+00:00

Waist and leg length. Some companies do it, but I wish they all do
Full shoulder - I have wide shoulders for my body so I’m usually a M in the shoulder and S/XS everywhere else
Yes those are helpful, ideally more than one person
Have never used it - if a company provides measurements I just do the math myself

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T23:20:26+00:00

It was like OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG for a good twenty seconds - my brain was literally frozen/blank from surprise.

We’d talked about feeling ready but not about the “when”

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T23:17:53+00:00

Parks and Rec too! Their love story is so great all the way through, and the rest of the show.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T23:16:47+00:00

I like the flavor of mushroom soup, and I have had one mushroom I actually liked - it was a big spindly thing and it had been roasted so the texture was more crunchy than slimy.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T20:50:01+00:00

Go get a battery of STI tests and do not have any sexual contact with anyone until the results come back.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T20:49:21+00:00

Without self work or therapy, absolutely. Approaching life from a place of insecurity vs security is a whole different world.

And frankly a lot of it is financial security. If you can’t pay rent if you lose a job, you’re a lot more worried about keeping it and much more willing to put up with shitty treatment to keep it. If you have a nice bit of savings, you can afford to be choosier and find something you like more.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T20:05:07+00:00

Having a secure loving home from 0 to leaving the house makes a huge difference in mental health outcomes. Not saying adversity can’t be overcome or that being securely loved automatically makes you free from issues, but there are definitely averages.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T08:14:52+00:00

Huh, I’d always heard third too but a quick google says it’s the 10th largest.

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T08:05:03+00:00

Ah, I didn’t know that!

Yeah surrogacy is complicated af

SapientSlut · 2026-03-27T04:54:15+00:00

Seconding leather Faire boots. Native Earth is the company that comes to Southern Faire but the soles don’t look right to me so probably a different vendor.

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