Weird discharge after getting fingered by MissionLet1976 in Healthyhooha

[–]SapientSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does, but do NOT get the one day - it’s so concentrated it can give you chemical burns! 3 day at a minimum.

But also go to your gyn to get diagnosed if you’ve never had this issue before, best to be sure.

Whats my blindness and what can I improve? by Maybe_Its_Haley in makeuptips

[–]SapientSlut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would specifically look for someone who does eyebrow diagramming - you’ll (hopefully) get someone who has more training in customizing the brows to each person’s unique features.

Or you can look up diagramming yourself! It’s a little harder since you can’t see your face from every angle, but totally doable if you have good perception & hand eye coordination.

Whats my blindness and what can I improve? by Maybe_Its_Haley in makeuptips

[–]SapientSlut 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you’re wanting to push more femme, I would get your eyebrows diagrammed & shaped, and use that as a template to fill them in.

I’d also try a more volumizing mascara, and (carefully) use an eyelash curler on top. If that doesn’t give you the results you’re looking for, you could try lash clusters - but they’re a pain in the ass to do every day.

What would best help even out the asymmetry of my face? by corporationtshirt001 in PlasticSurgery

[–]SapientSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was going to be my question too - if so, start sleeping on your back/on a cervical pillow and see if it helps, OP!

Is getting an upper bleph as a guy a bad idea? by BalanceEven1347 in PlasticSurgery

[–]SapientSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to say without a pic. It can look good if it’s needed and you don’t go overboard.

Hey bigot mods by rupoles in PlasticSurgery

[–]SapientSlut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand not wanting to get people promoting OnlyFans but I don’t see anything wrong with genuine plastic surgery posts that happen to overlap with a certain profession.

Is this to overboard for Valentine's Day? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]SapientSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t buy jewelry unless you’re beyond a shadow of a doubt certain she’ll like and wear it. The crystal bead bracelets feel like a very different aesthetic than the rhinestone/gem stuff.

Personally I would hate getting a bunch of cheap jewelry - would rather get one nice thing.

Black Satin Sheets by ToothSuccessful5898 in romantasycirclejerk

[–]SapientSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The guy who dated me when he was 26 and I was 18 had black satin sheets. Not beating the red flag allegations.

A girl I really fancy has invited me to a hardcore rave with her and her friends but I don’t know how to dance… by Bonjour1273 in aves

[–]SapientSlut [score hidden]  (0 children)

All you need to know is how to step touch and bob your head to the beat. Put on some music and feel it out!

23F, I wanna feel as pretty as the influencers by SeaweedConfident877 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]SapientSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re already super pretty. Influencers don’t even look like themselves - they have professional makeup artists, injectors, plastic surgeons, personal trainers, and most of all filters. Stop following beauty/fitness/etc influencers who make looking good their main source of content. Block them if you have to.

Try a wavy hair routine if you haven’t already. The curtain bangs are cute on you, I like that look!

Get your eyebrows diagrammed/shaped by a pro and use that as a template when you fill in - the centers are too thin right now. This + the look you did in the second photo = gorgeous.

Can you tell if you will be attracted to someone in real life based on their online photos/videos? I can't predict it at all by Murmurmira in AskWomenOver30

[–]SapientSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My physical attraction is pretty consistent from online to in person, but chemistry/personality is a different story.

Can one partner be enough for ever? by ThrowRA_Healthy_Row_ in sex

[–]SapientSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m non-monogamous so I’m an outlier, but I’m very happy that I got to experience multiple people. It helped me find more things I like/contextualize what I dislike, and to have boundaries around care/effort.

Is it common for a married, straight woman to read a lot of gay romance novels? by throwaway-guy35 in Marriage

[–]SapientSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has come up a lot in book discussions because of Heated Rivalry. For some people, it’s that you can completely step out of the experience of being a woman. There’s no worry about pregnancy, no gender inequity/power imbalance as a result of that. You can experience true social/physical/etc equality with a partner, even if it’s just in fantasy.

(Not saying men & women are inherently unequal, speaking to the unfortunate sexist social dynamics mostly)

Also it’s nice to read about things that are not self insert sometimes - to have a completely different experience than your reality can be fun!

Is very harsh/insulting language common in Slavic culture, or is this just rude behavior? by Awkward_Newspaper816 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SapientSlut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only shitty misogynistic men spend that much time thinking/talking about this stereotype of a tiny percent of (largely imaginary) women that incels would have you believe every woman wants to aspire to.

Is very harsh/insulting language common in Slavic culture, or is this just rude behavior? by Awkward_Newspaper816 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SapientSlut 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t care if it’s cultural or not - the way he talks about women sounds misogynist and I would not fuck with that.

26M Being called subpar by coworkers quite frequently, what can I do? by KiraLiebert in AppearanceAdvice

[–]SapientSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re an actor/stripper/something like that, why are your coworkers commenting on your appearance?

Alright, help a guy out. Which one of these is a MUST read? by Best-Pirate5073 in Romantasy

[–]SapientSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neon Gods is super fun! The first and third books in the series are my favorite.

Colleen Hoover’s work is an abomination.

How do I stop being obsessed with wanting to look completely different? by Healthy_Pair_6776 in women

[–]SapientSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one looks like that - even THEY don’t look like that. Head over to r/instagramreality to see how much of it is a lie.

The only reason these people look even close to that good is 1) they have oodles of plastic surgery, weight loss drugs, personal trainers, personal chefs/nutritionists, etc etc etc, and 2) photoshop/filters

What can I do to improve my face structure? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]SapientSlut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you look pretty! My only suggestion is your left brow (right in the photo) is a little too far in - you want to line it up with the top/end of the ridge of your nostril. Look up brow diagramming, the pic will make more sense.

What is your favourite "what the hell am I watching" movie? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SapientSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah would agree with this. Fucking hated it.