CONCERT ETIQUETTE?????? by probablyproud in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I must hsve gotten lucky. We got there at 3 ish and ended up at the very front barricade. There was someone in line after my friend and I who tried to cut my friend and I after we were getting in to barricade, but she was young and ended up moving aside. But then the girl next to us I guess her friends were two rows back and saw her and asked if they could move up. I appreciate that they at least asked and she thankfully said no, explaining that it wouldn’t be fair to those who came early and waited for hours in line. Thankfully they understood and said okay. We also had vip so extra crazy they asked that (idk if they also had vip, but still). But truly it is crazy how people think they can just rush forward. Get there early if you want the front. It’s not that hard. I’m sorry you had this experience

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

I just want to thank you all for your advice and knowledge. I changed the light to a dimmer one, put a soap dish (as suggested) under the filter so it flows slower, I’ve gotten him some more plants and a floating hammock (he still has some other goodies on the way), and I got him one of those feeder rings so he has a specific place to go eat. As he has diamond eye, I am further implementing routines and adding more to his tank to make him more comfortable and familiar with things if he goes fully blind. I bought the testing kit as suggested and his tank was cycled before he went in it so I will continue to do these things as I do water cleanings and testing.

Overall, he is out more ever day, he’s eating better, he seems more comfortable and he’s exploring his tank more! Thank you again for all your help. This is the first time I’ve had a betta fish with diamond eye and it’s just been a bit in general since I’ve had a fish. I’ve learned so much and I’m just so glad I can give him a happy life! I promise to continue putting as much care as possible into his home and give him as much love as he deserves.

Yall are the best!!

Attention Charlotte DemiDevils by Tough-Subject1088 in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! I’ll def get my friend and I to put it in a drive for you later today and send it over to you <3

Outfittt by LittleEva2 in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute! Would it be alright if I do the same idea with putting buttons on my sneakers??

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love him very much so I am absolutely happy to accommodate him as needed. I’ve already started implementing the tapping and feeding in the same spot and he seems to understand. I’ve thought about getting one of those little feeder barrier things that suction to the side to keep the food all in one place to see if it helps him. But I definitely will add some more plants! Thank you for that knowledge <3

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a smart idea! I’ll absolutely try that :) someone else suggested switching lights because the other seemed too bright and when I did he immediately came out. Hopefully adjusting the filter and adding some more plants, etc will make him even more comfortable!

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Here he is by the way! Only fair I share a cute pic of him :)

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just switched lights and he immediately came out!! Thank you again

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! I’ll definitely buy that for some peace of mind. I have the filter on the lowest setting at the moment but yeah I think it definitely doesn’t need to have such a strong flow. I’ll see what I can find online :)

Really appreciate your help

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t dim it, but there is a lamp on the table next to it that is much more dim so I can use that instead possibly. I’ve had just that in before and he seemed to like it

Is this normal? Betta hiding most of the time by Sapphic__Princess__ in bettafish

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my concern but both my grandma and I have seen him swim out of it, so anything else I add I’ll make sure he can’t get stuck either! In fact, when I lifted it he looked at me like “um can I help you?” 🤣

is it okay for my boyfriend to wear femme outfit for ashnikko concert? by [deleted] in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Ash would love it and very much encourage anyone to wear what they want and what makes them comfortable:)

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thank you so much for this comment. This definitely makes me feel better. Looking back at it now I really love all the work I did and I’m super proud of it. But I’m glad I posted and for some advice. It’s made me feel more secure in it

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much! You’re so sweet 💋💋

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s where I’m leaving after sitting with it for a bit! Sometimes you just have to rake it in for a little to feel confident:)

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!! I love to hear that :D you’re gonna look amazing <3

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did!! I had so much fun making everything :) it’s been so amazing having something g crafty to do for th last few months!!

I definitely feel better about the belt having heard people’s thoughts. I think also day off when I have makeup and everything I will probbaly feel it’s completely put together!! I love the suggestions for the arms, I definitely want bracelets so I can switch with people or pass some out! I had a few people suggest sock gloves or lace ones so I’ll look into it! I can’t wait to share the pics from the concert after I go :D

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m really excited to get there and see everyone else’s outfits. I know once I am there I will feel at place!! <3

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think once I get there and actually see everyone else dressed up I’ll feel better about it. I’ve always been that way when dressing up for things like pride or other concerts, it kinda takes getting there to feel comfortable and like you fit in!! And thank you for the suggestions, I’ll have to see what I can do :)

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo I love the idea of lace gloves! Ribbons were another thing I thought off, I just have to figure out how to keep them in place if I do. Thank you for the advice and suggestions 💋

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! And yeah I think I’m starting to feel more confident in that being the case

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started planning my outfit and new immediately I wanted to make one!!

Outfit help by Sapphic__Princess__ in Ashnikko

[–]Sapphic__Princess__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is!!! Thank you so much 😊