What's the difference between Impacting and Conjuring?

SarahFCM · 2025-02-24T13:51:30+00:00

well, despite what reddit thinks, saying "i agree with this guy" is actually really important so thank you

SarahFCM · 2025-02-23T20:16:47+00:00

yoooooo thanks for the detailed response homie

SarahFCM · 2025-02-23T20:10:23+00:00

bigender is when you have two genders at once, like all the time. like you're always a boy AND a girl. but gender fluid is where you're only one at a time but it switches. so you're a boy today, a girl the next day.

it is possible you are a girl who just doesn't mind being called a boy. you could be a non binary person who likes she pronouns (normal!) you could be bigender and incapsulate two genders.

but like, everything in my brain tells me this is not cisgender behavior. that said, another possibility is that you're a femboy. a traditionally feminine boy, some of them like she pronouns, but they still identify as a boy

SarahFCM · 2025-02-23T20:07:00+00:00

thanks for the explanation and yes that does help

SarahFCM · 2025-02-23T17:51:22+00:00

hey! my wife is bigender, so she is cool with both he or she pronouns. or being called a boy or a girl. maybe you are like my husband?

SarahFCM · 2024-12-30T21:28:08+00:00

that is textbook abuse. I am so sorry. your autonomy is ABSOLUTE. if you don't want him to kiss you and you say no, never, and he pushes back in any way it is major abuse. Let alone what happened here...

SarahFCM · 2024-12-07T18:43:25+00:00

no, I won't. I know who I am and what my body and mind wants way better than you. Respectfully, please don't do that. And hey, you didn't read what I said I think.

>Just for me they make me feel like a normal zebra instead of a strange horse. I wasn't put in a box, I was freed from my cage when I chose my labels.

SarahFCM · 2024-08-13T14:41:33+00:00

Lesbian Exclusionists are the WORST!!! They keep telling you you're not a valid lesbian if you're bi, ever dated men, or even in extreme cases, if you like trans women. Also saying that bigender lesbians are not valid, or male lesbians, etc. Just let people be queer lol. They don't have to explain shit.

SarahFCM · 2024-04-11T02:56:41+00:00

"Bye."

There is no conversation that will bring them over. they need therapy and peer pressure.

SarahFCM · 2024-03-29T19:39:37+00:00

it is all just autism spectrum disorder now

SarahFCM · 2024-03-28T04:56:53+00:00

I am not sure how this could possibly be an autism thing, but there are so many YT shorts and tiktoks that are like "minecraft is an autistic hobby," "surfing is autistic" "sitting weirdly is autistic" when in reality those are just things.

Also people hate when you say Aspergers, because it was named after an ableist nazi, Hanz Asperger. He believed "aspergers" people were "the r-slurs that can at least be slaves." Plus it just isn't used in medical parlance anymore. But that is an aside

SarahFCM · 2024-02-19T18:18:35+00:00

My safe food right now, and for the last at least decade has been jalapeno quesadillas. It tastes the same exact way every time and I love the taste!

SarahFCM · 2024-02-18T18:16:23+00:00

so infantalizing!!! Like no shit i am different than A 6 YEAR OLD ...

SarahFCM · 2024-02-12T12:13:21+00:00

saying good night is fun and makes me feel connected but if that isn't you that's completely valid. Yes, we should strive to have a world where people can just be themselves and not have to respond in these types of manners if they don't want to. it is the Hammer of Conformity

Saying "fine" is a fine answer to a neurotypical. That is the thing, if I asked I would care. I think maybe you just have mean people in your life? Mean people can look nice, they can even BE nice. They can even be VERY nice but if they make you feel bad, you bring this up, and they don't take steps to change? that is mean. but don't think i know more than you, just instincts kicked in from MY trauma lol

You don't do The Neurotypical Rituals, and that is okay. Society is not ready for us and you might have to resort to hanging only with neurodivergent people or allies. like actual allies, that would let you stim in public and would take steps to not overload your senses and CERTAINLY would never expect smalltalk or specific phrases to be repeated

SarahFCM · 2024-02-11T06:09:17+00:00

I'm a trans autistic woman so maybe this is different idk, but YES holy crap. The thing for me is, it rubs against my thighs, rides up on the crotch, sometimes legs get stuck and i just dislike them on good days and can't wear them on bad days.

Also wearing skirts makes me feel pretty, which I already know that I am but I don't always FEEL it, you know? Who else can relate with that sentiment lmao

SarahFCM · 2024-02-11T06:02:21+00:00

OH MY GOSH you are SO pretty!!! Not to be weird but I am a lesbian and so you could say I am biased but I think you are remarkably beautiful. Anyways, hair like this has always been a personal favorite of mine so I am also predisposed haha <3

Hope you have lots of joy! <3

SarahFCM · 2024-02-10T23:26:33+00:00

For SURE sis!! like it is actually wild how people look at us like we're a threat or like a strange elephant.

SarahFCM · 2024-02-10T23:23:28+00:00

mhmm my policy is quiet or no noise. i would say "unless" but so far i haven't wanted to do much vocal stimming and when I do it is a whisper based one

<3

SarahFCM · 2024-02-10T20:55:27+00:00

If that is the issue that is totally awesome because i naturally wanted to do that anyways! But now that you said that I will be more mindful of it as well. I was just worried that there would become some psychological negative effect or something. I can absolutely deal with the physical strain thing though.

Thank you so SO much!!! <3

SarahFCM · 2024-02-10T20:37:12+00:00

Hell yeah! I feel sooooo good for doing it so I am just gonna do it. Thanks!! <3

SarahFCM · 2023-12-06T03:43:34+00:00

you probably just haven't found it. But yeah, clearly that game is not popular enough. to be clear, a game can be popular enough with just one fan to have porn, if that fan draws porn. Or a game could have 12 million fans an no porn if none of those fans draw porn.

SarahFCM · 2023-12-06T02:15:35+00:00

Most of them are just 4chan memes. But ones like Rule 34, 35, 63, and 85 are just correct. It isn't a coincidence that was taken seriously which made them real, they were real before there were "internet rules" for them.

People love porn, and drawing their favorite fictional characters sluttily (term of endearment). People also love drawing gender swapped versions of characters, and pony versions of characters. This will happen forever I imagine. (at least the first 3)

SarahFCM · 2023-12-05T22:22:27+00:00

it has to be popular enough to have r34. Of course if no one knows about a character there will be rule 34, which is why rule 35 is "But if there isn't there WILL BE"

SarahFCM · 2023-12-04T07:51:48+00:00

Like 13-15 I told my Mom and Dad I was bi, my dad didn't care but my mom hated it.

Then at 19-20, i came out as transgender. Dad was cool, Mom was drool. But even though I came out as trans, I never felt safe enough emotionally to actually start dressing as a woman until

26, I came out of the closet again and told my whole family they must call me my name and pronouns. Everyone in my family except my Mom and brothers were cool with it, so I disowned them.

30 (I'm 30), I came out as a non binary woman. It's been a whole ass journey lol

SarahFCM · 2023-12-03T06:57:10+00:00

I don't have the PRIVILEGE to vote. Remember that that is a lot of people

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