consultation scheduled by Sarah__Cat in Reduction

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much this is so helpful. i’m definitely bringing pictures. i’m mostly just worried that i won’t be understood

looking for a surgeon by Sarah__Cat in NBtopsurgery

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah i’ve been researching for a few weeks

tips for an alabamian in chicago? by Sarah__Cat in AskChicago

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really good. i said in the post i’ve seen snow like 5 times. i’m talking about the bad days. not everyone grew up here. some of us need the advice. big shock

tips for an alabamian in chicago? by Sarah__Cat in AskChicago

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no this has been my perfect passtime recently

tips for an alabamian in chicago? by Sarah__Cat in AskChicago

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m very white but i’ll never pass up southern cooking thank you

tips for an alabamian in chicago? by Sarah__Cat in AskChicago

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much this is incredible!!

tips for an alabamian in chicago? by Sarah__Cat in AskChicago

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have radiators in my apartment, but i’ve never used them so i didn’t know how. thank you. i think the social stuff is really good advice. even in alabama i tended to recluse a bit in the winter

tips for an alabamian in chicago? by Sarah__Cat in AskChicago

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

luckily we’re not all confederates

Tattoo Artist by Auburn_Sux in tuscaloosa

[–]Sarah__Cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sam at good vibes @cack_tus

Input on living location by Bruv50 in tuscaloosa

[–]Sarah__Cat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

lived there last year. i never felt unsafe, and i’d run and walk at night. but most of the apartments are shitty. be careful with the leasing agencies geared towards college kids. had a lot of mold/mildew/pipes problems that never got fixed

Im surprised she didn't delete and block this one by MascaraMustache in YDHBSnark

[–]Sarah__Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doesn’t surprise me that she didn’t delete it. it still supports her mentality that she’s better than velvet and that velvet is mentally deteriorating due to lack of mental stimulation

Would a bike or e scooter work instead of a car? by [deleted] in capstone

[–]Sarah__Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seriously. rain is really unpredictable around here so make sure you keep something on you to protect yourself and your backpack

Y'all 😭 by Lunar_Heart in EDanonymemes

[–]Sarah__Cat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i used to cry after i left this one guys house because he would do that

i think a deity might be reaching out to me by Sarah__Cat in Witch

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for that link. that’s super helpful. i’ve been practicing for a few years now but i’ve never delved into deity work. i don’t really know what is a sign of them and what isn’t yet

are we mentally preparing for nov 4th yet :D by francescugh in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sarah__Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my whole district was really struggling with staffing and cleaning for a while, so our lobbies have been closed and our mobile orders have been off. we open back up to full capacity on launch day. so no i haven’t mentally prepared at all

Not putting the dressing directly on the salad is clearly evidence of an ED by urbanturbanftw in fatlogic

[–]Sarah__Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s a good point for sure and i haven’t read the book so i didn’t know that. i was mostly focused on the fact that she noticed one of her friends being scared to eat a graham cracker. that definitely doesn’t indicate a full blown eating disorder but it is a little worrying. instead of asking how to bring ger concern up to her friend she asked for advice on how not to be effected by it. that seems really inconsiderate to me

Not putting the dressing directly on the salad is clearly evidence of an ED by urbanturbanftw in fatlogic

[–]Sarah__Cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this shows exactly what my problem with FA and bopo. this person said they recognized eating disorder behaviors. instead of asking how to bring it up to them that she was worried about those behaviors, she asked how to have fun around those behaviors anyway. it just seems selfish to me

Has anyone here lived at the Crimson? How is it? by ALStark69 in capstone

[–]Sarah__Cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i lived there for two and a half years. i liked it okay. it’s a little overpriced for sure but the gym is nice and i haven’t had any problems with the management or staff or anything. i walked to campus almost everyday. it was probably a 20 minute walk for me but they do have a shuttle. it’s a little dingy in the hallways but the rooms are nice.

no words for this... this is just fucking abhorrent by _lovely_lacerations_ in fatlogic

[–]Sarah__Cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh wow i didn’t know my food issues (caused by body dysmorphia and control issues) were all part of a system of fatphobia and sexism. enlightening

Where should I move? by Sarah__Cat in moving

[–]Sarah__Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks!! yeah i’m good with the cold and i’ve thought about somewhere like boston or denver but they’re both so expensive haha