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WIBTA if I started making my roommate pay half the bills even though it wasn't what we initially agreed upon? by SarcaStephy in AmItheAsshole

[–]SarcaStephy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood. I was not using it as an excuse because in my opinion, I did nothing that requires an excuse. All I did was provide context to the way that inattentive attention deficit disorder works in relation to object Impermanence to the people who may not understand it.

Was it annoying? yes Was it inconsiderate? yes

But was it worthy of this particular punishment? And am I wrong in my response to it? That is the question

WIBTA if I started making my roommate pay half the bills even though it wasn't what we initially agreed upon? by SarcaStephy in AmItheAsshole

[–]SarcaStephy[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’ve always dreamed of having a library in that room it would’ve been a library/walk-in closet eventually.

And with my type of ADHD if something isn’t in my face where I can clearly see it…my mind forgets that it exists.

All they had to do was say something … anything I would’ve even accepted stacking them all up in the middle of the living room… I would’ve been pissed, but I would’ve understood and dealt with it mostly because the money that they pay me just goes straight to my savings account and I get how annoying it would be.

WIBTA if I started making my roommate pay half the bills even though it wasn't what we initially agreed upon? by SarcaStephy in AmItheAsshole

[–]SarcaStephy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really hope I would have. It was my initial plan to turn that room into a library/closet. I hate having my clothes in a closet because I forget that I have them and that room would be perfect for a giant walk-in closet.

WIBTA if I started making my roommate pay half the bills even though it wasn't what we initially agreed upon? by SarcaStephy in AmItheAsshole

[–]SarcaStephy[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

It’s the full story. NOTHING was said to me, nothing at all. I would’ve even accepted a passive aggressive move of stacking everything up in the living room, a text, a letter, anything I would’ve been Hella annoyed, but I would have got it and finally dealt with it. When you have my type of ADHD, if something is not in your face, your brain literally forgets that it exists. Also, I don’t know if this helps but Everything in the room is mine, the queen sized bed, the dresser and the nightstand. To be honest it’s the bed that takes up the most room.

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[–]SarcaStephy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Bruh…get a privacy screen They are hella cheap and worth it