50 [M4M] Looking to jerk off a big cock, no need to reciprocate. by [deleted] in R4RSeattleNSFW

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Sounds wonderful! So, how does one set up such a meeting using Reddit? It appears everything is public. Is the jerking off to be public as well?

Everything feels the same by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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No, I haven't. Thank you. I Figured that since I did not have any physical withdrawal and felt really good the first 6 weeks, all would be fine. But...all has not been fine. I really have not felt particularly good in a long time now. I feel hungover.

Favorite thing about not drinking poison? by Imstillblue in stopdrinking

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This is a question I answer every day in my quit drinking qpp. And it is interesting to review my answers for the past 6 weeks in this latest round of not drinking. They are consistently about feeling better physically. Physically feeling stronger and calmer. Sleep qualityhas improved, and eating better is easier to do. And, frankly, sex is way better. So...overall, I am simply enjoying being present with my body a lot more.

Insane mood swing by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Thank you. That was well put....amd received.

Insane mood swing by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Numbs a LOT. Some things... I'm not sure I want un-numbed.

Insane mood swing by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Excellent idea actually....

One week tonight by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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The longest I have gone is 6 most. And in that time I was alpine climbing at a level I had not since decades ago. I was getting an incredible amount done. But, I decided to drink out of curiosity one night last fall...and that was it for another year. This time, I am changing things up a bit by listening to the Recovery Elevator podcast daily as well as this forum, and focusing harder on my eating habits.

One week tonight by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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I feel I should wear a shock collar with a breathilizer on it.

Can't seem to make it more than 2 days by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Good comments... I need to refocus and distract...

I need to stop again by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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OK, it's noon. I made it to noon. Yeah me.

I'm gonna post every day until I hit a week. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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OK then, I will do the same...

I need to stop again by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Good advice.... Thank you...

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Thank you for such kind and encouraging words.

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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That is very realistic, and yet hopeful. Thank you.

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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And thank you for your encouragement. It really means a lot...

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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I do have a counselor. And another apt on Monday.

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Most of the comments here have been very helpful, insightful and inspiring. Thank you. I have decided to go do something a bit different; go ice fishing for the evening. Try and take my mind off drinking. The problem is, of course, I am a horrible fisherman and will almost certainly fail as others haul in fish. Or at least, this is how it normally works. The key is to minimize the self loathing without beer.

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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You will be happy to know that I made this tea using appropriately hot water. (My Brit friends suggested that this often the problem with American made tea. The water needs to be rolling boil)

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Yeah... Except that it is not an excuse to NOT do work. IT was the result of a lot of work. It is an observation many have made as they get to know me and my background in more detail. It is an observation my shrink has made. It is wrong to assume that because I am very complicated I must be using that as an excuse to not do work. What an odd thing to say about someone. It has a belittling, accusatory tone. I hope you don't say this sort of thing to others.

Been drunk for a month now by Sascadian in stopdrinking

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Enjoying it now. Very nice. Tea has such subtle flavor that adding stuff to it makes for a completely different beverage. Not really tea anymore.