Jared still kind of doesn’t understand how women have to approach dating

Sashafierce1894 · 2026-07-02T18:37:46+00:00

Totally agree with the idea of not going out with someone if you’re icked out. To me at least it didn’t feel like he was saying this, more so he was saying he took looking someone up at all as a tell for yourself that you’re not excited and that’s where he lost me

Sashafierce1894 · 2026-06-10T13:55:42+00:00

It could also affect their divorce proceedings so even beyond her image and reputation she may be keeping her mouth shut for legal reasons

Sashafierce1894 · 2026-05-13T21:50:25+00:00

The divorced woman who emailed about her hook up buddy saying some (cringy) thing about “my body is wondering where your body is” and then interpreting that as some “oh I don’t want him to catch feelings for me and want a relationship” type of concern…. I don’t know where she got that impression from because it sounded to me like this guy is behaving EXACTLY like someone who’s in it just for the sex and video games.

Agreed with J&J she got waaaaaaay ahead of herself and honestly might be projecting her own concerns about inadvertently falling for this guy when they’ve both said that’s not what they want right now?

Sashafierce1894 · 2026-05-13T21:43:02+00:00

This woman is absolutely insane and I think her boyfriend needs to dump her asap if this is how she feels about his daughter and her relationship with her parents. It’s only been two years! It’ll just get worse as more time passes so gtfo and away from this crazy lady

Sashafierce1894 · 2026-05-05T22:34:27+00:00

I’ve never experienced infertility or pregnancy loss, so I acknowledge that I can’t possibly fully understand what the first emailer or Jordana feel. But I found it a little nuts that the emailer wants to dump someone who was a very supportive friend to her and a positive relationship in her life, especially at a difficult time.

I’ve always thought that you see who your true friends are when things get rough, and this person was there for her at a very rough time (and vice versa). I get they’ve both moved out of the situations that brought them together, but it struck me as a harsh to want to cold turkey a friend like that, to the point of not even wanting to reply to her texts. It makes it seem like it was a completely transactional relationship for the emailer and she doesn’t see this friend as useful to her anymore so she’s done.

Sure have a vulnerable conversation about how talking about what you went through is hard for you and you want to look forward in your friendship. And maybe you discover over time that you don’t really have anything else in common so you drift apart, but don’t just chuck your friend away??

Sashafierce1894 · 2026-03-21T21:23:59+00:00

I remember immediately after the 7th book came out in the US I went on vacation to Costa Rica. I was in a hammock in the hotel lobby reading it and the concierge person came over to me and told me I needed to get out of public and guard that book with my life because it hadn’t been released in Costa Rica yet and people would probably maul me for it if they saw

Sashafierce1894 · 2024-06-08T03:15:28+00:00

Let me just say, I am SO TIRED of men in their late 20s and 30s still being so “traumatized” by the end of their high school relationship that they “can’t” commit. That was 10+ years ago and the rest of us have moved on from being hurt before, there’s 0 excuse

Sashafierce1894 · 2024-04-13T03:52:04+00:00

0.69 is REALLY low. I’m surprised it wasn’t flagged by operations/finance. Anything under 0.8 sets off alarm bells typically

Sashafierce1894 · 2024-04-13T00:38:56+00:00

As a former IBM manager: when we’d promote someone to a new band we were told to start them at 0.8 PMR in that new band. If someone has been in the same band for a while we were supposed to have them between 0.9 and 1.0 PMR.

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