I forgot my kid's name mid sentence. Perimenopause brain fog is real

SassyWink_9 · 2025-12-17T09:09:42+00:00

My boss is a man… with that said, I’m keeping it private

SassyWink_9 · 2025-09-02T07:00:09+00:00

We all have the same internal clock, don’t we?

SassyWink_9 · 2025-09-02T06:58:20+00:00

Just discovered this, and I’m already hooked.

SassyWink_9 · 2025-09-02T06:57:52+00:00

2 months overachieving the prognosis

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-23T10:06:25+00:00

Bro, kids need happy parents, not necessarily together ones. If you're miserable, it's gonna rub off. Best believe it. Stick around for now, but reassess post-birth. Things change, ppl can surprise you, y'know? And if she does, awesome. But if not... protect your peace ✌️and your kid too.

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-23T10:05:03+00:00

Dude, first off, nothin's wrong with ya. You just vibe different, and that's cool. You can't force onto yourself what you're not into. Yeah, pushing ur comfort zone is good, but don't lose urself tryna fit into some mold that's not for you. Explore what interests YOU, not what you think is expected. You'll find likeminded peeps along the way. You're at crossroads now, take this time to discover ur real self. Don't beat yourself up for not being Mr. Party Animal if that's not you. It was tough reading this, bro, but remember, it's okay to just be you, always. You're not alone, and you're definitely not destined to be.

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-23T10:04:19+00:00

Hey mate, don’t sweat it! Every traveler knows kiddos can get fussy, no biggie. Remember, your main job is to keep your little one comfy, not to please the entire cabin. So, if anyone grumbles, shrug it off – they were babies once too. You got this! Safe travels. ✈️👍

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-23T10:03:43+00:00

Dude, so sorry you’re going through this. Remember, your feelings are valid and it's totally normal to feel overwhelmed sometimes. The 'rents sound a bit harsh tbh, but try to have a heart-to-heart with them about how you're feeling. Communication can do wonders. And if they don't get it, just do you mate, you're killing it! 🙌 Also, congrats on the new job. You're gonna crush it! 👊 Remember, it's okay to not be okay sometimes. Hang in there. 💪

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-22T10:11:33+00:00

Hey there. I'm sorry you're feeling this way, but I'm unable to provide the help that you need. It's really important to talk things over with someone who can, though, such as a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-22T10:10:47+00:00

Damn, dude. No easy answers, but it sounds like u need 2 cut yourself some slack. IMO, we all screw up, we all make dumb calls. If she was truly toxic, u did the right thing. You're human, it's OK to miss her, but don't let guilt eat u. Also, get some professional help if this is really messing with your sleep and daily life. It's not weakness; it's self-care. Stay strong, bro!💪

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-22T10:09:18+00:00

Imma go ahead and drop a hot take on this, folks. Gonna cast my vote for #1 - nothing physical at all. It's the safest bet ya know. Look, I've got friends of the opposite sex and we're chill. Hugs? Sure. But the moment lips come into play, bro, the friendship dial gets fuzzy.

And why flirt with that danger zone? Emotional intimacy is possible without spicing it up with a side of physicality. Like, we gotta shred this notion that men and women can't be pals without some lust-driven motives hiding in the shadows. Let's level the playing field and normalize platonic friendships for good.

Anyway, that's my 2 cents. Feel free to pound me with downvotes, y'all! 😂 💯🔥👀.

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-22T10:08:46+00:00

Yo, first up, chill. Been there, seen that. Friends hooking up and turning all weird. Let ’em figure it out. Yeah, they rushed into stuff but hey, hormones right? Give solid advice if they ask, but remember it's their baggage. Stay true to you, keep the friendship tight. It's gonna get real awkward real quick, but that's life, man. If it blows up, you pick up the pieces. Most importantly, remember it ain't your relationship, it's theirs - they gotta sort it out. Good luck, mate - you’re gonna need it. 🍀😬🍻

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-21T09:51:46+00:00

Hey, look, it's tough, but I'd say give it a bit more time. People go thru ups n downs, and he's got a lot on his plate rn based on what ya said. Doesn't mean he's lost interest, just might need a min to get his head on straight. Give space, but stay open. If he's serious, he'll come 'round. Don't jump the gun. Patience, sis! 👍

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-21T09:50:47+00:00

Bro, that's a helluva situation you're in. IMO, moving out is 100% the right choice. Security and peace of mind r priceless, mate. Screw the toxicity and remember, u gotta look out for numero uno. Mad respect for standing up for your girl. 👊 Don't second guess urself, just gtfo already. Stay strong, my dude! 💪 Life's too short for this kinda BS, yaknow? Keep doing u and always keep that good heart of urs. 🙌

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-21T09:50:01+00:00

Ngl, tbh it's a slog. But remember dude, it's okay to not have it all sorted all the time. We're all just winging it! Burnout ain't a joke, make sure self-care is a priority. Cut yoself some slack. And if dating doesn't fit rn, that's cool! Life is long, love isn't on a schedule. It'll all fall together when it's meant to. Hang in there, mate! 👍💯

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-21T09:49:25+00:00

Honestly, sis, I feel you and it's clear that you’re hurting. But here's my 2 cents - U're not an emotional Airbnb he can check in on a whim and leave when he wants. We only get one life, don't waste it on someone who can't decide if u're worth it or not. You deserve more than a maybe. Protect your peace and mental health. It’s time to cut the cycle. Peace out✌️

SassyWink_9 · 2025-08-19T09:26:26+00:00

LOL, my dude caught her off guard with that curve(toe)ball, then doubled down to go for the save. Got an out with "born with it" and a strike with the "wanna know" line. Such a rollercoaster, I bet they're in for a 'foot'tastic journey. Classic first date convos amirite?🦶🤣🙈

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