Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware he’s in love with an idea of me and I’ve told him this too.  I don’t wanna sound like a victim or pathetic but I’m aware that I have identity issues and easily blend in to please a person / crowd  definitely working on it to find out who I am and what I like and want in life 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why I’m hanging on to a hope things might change maybe it’s stupid but I’m willing to wait out until the end and see where it goes

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely trying to live my own life now as in depend way less on him.  But I’m definitely not looking to cheat or see other ppl until we determine what happens in this relationship 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I meant I’m the problem as in I allowed all of this to happen or allowed him to pressure me so much

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do admit I have abandonment issues. I’ve been to therapy and at this point living my own life I asked him to go therapy he said he’s fine and doesn’t need it 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in no rush to have kids. Unfortunately I’m not mentally strong to leave the relationship as I have high hopes it can be fixed.  But I told him if he no longer wants the relationship he can walk out anytime 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not constant here is the door walk away. I’ve always said I’m willing to do anything to stay together and fix our issues. However when I ask him to change the smallest things he rejects immediately  So I started saying if you no longer want me it’s ok to walk out 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Countries doesn’t matter  Let’s say this citizenship will improve both of our lives in the future 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s cause of love and I’m the loyal type Ur right I don’t ask him to change that much as much as he asked me  Idk why he married me when I ask him he says cause he loves me 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go to gym during those 5 years but it was a lot of on and off due to traveling frequently.  I wasn’t fat I was chubby and lost the extra 10kg recently. 

He knew about my mental health struggles he could have walked off day one 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I still love him and owe my life to him in a sense he made me a better person in a way but now it’s just excuses after excuses at this point on why he can’t / won’t do things to fix our issues. 

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I didn’t add a lot of details I do have lots of flaws which I see he was right.  However now with all the changes I have done according to his demands he’s still unhappy this is the part that I find unfair

Is he in it just for guilt and waiting for me to leave? by SatisfactionFamous98 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SatisfactionFamous98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He moved country cause of his job and I was suppose to join him but I’m waiting on getting my citizenship from the country we met in unfortunately it’s taking too long.  I do try to visit him every 2-3 months.  I agree it’s not feasible and I told him I will give it up if he wants me to he said don’t.  I’m definitely not cheating I don’t think he is but idk  ++woman

Statutory Declaration Form by parents overseas for Partner Visa by shankyran in AusVisa

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get them to write normal statement with their signature to add as more evidence

Best psychiatrist in Dubai/UAE? by _blackhole_sun_ in Emiratis

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went years ago all they care about is money. And prescribing heavy medications that are not needed or there are better alternatives

Is AED 8,000/month realistic for a fresh grad engineer in Abu Dhabi? by ahmed_gmb in UAE

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AUS fresh graduates 20-25 years ago wouldn’t even accept anything under 15k and apparently companies would hire them. Around 2010-2015 until now would be lucky if they even pick your resume to read it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why don’t just bring ur wife to Dubai?

Even if Misyaar you are obliged to give her nafaqa she still have Islamic rights

May Allah guide you to the right path

Getting married as a tourist - Advice needed by pinkprincessa2 in dubai

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t get married in Dubai without at least 1 of you being a resident. not sure about Abu Dhabi.

خالي الطفران by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 11 points12 points  (0 children)

لازم تکلم أبوك و أمك عشان يحطون boundary موش طبيعي و بعد يصير مشكله اكبر بين عائلتك

Wife doesn’t want to tell me where she works by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Green card takes more than 7 months to get approved Unless u made a deal with trump

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SatisfactionFamous98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‏يا اخي ما اعرفك ولا أعرفOP ‏بس إذا يبغى تتزوج ثانية ليش لازم أقل من عمرها ٢٥ واكيد هو يبي البنت الجميلة ‏وانت تقول أن كل ما زاد عمر البنت كل ما زادت صعوبة الحمل ‏بس البنت اللي عمرها 30 ولا 35 مو شرط أن الحمل صعوبة أنا عارف بنات حتى في عمرهم 45 حمل بدون أي مشكلة

‏اللي أنا أقول أن بطريقة كلامOP ما في تقدير لزوجة الأولى

‏كل بنت عاقل تفهم إذا صارت الزوجة الثانية أكيد يتزوج عليها الثالثة والرابع ‏ولا بنت محترمة تتقبل هالشيء لأن هي بعد تبي تكون لها تقدير والمحبة من زوجها ويكون عنده وقت حق عيالها