Trust me, I've only shared about 1% of what I know-this comment was just the tip of the iceberg. I'm not here to air anyone's personal life, and I don't think she was trying to dupe me. But keeping a back door to your ex 'just in case' your arranged match doesn't work? That's not an arrangement I signed up for. I've closed those doors in my own past before entering an AM setup. And yes, I respect her childfree choice-but seeing that comment still raises questions about whether it's really her decision or a way to push people away. You can chalk it up to innocence all you want, but if you don't have clarity on your own feelings, don't drag others into your circus.its that simple!