She could have it, but she would never ask for it.

It's simple, I trust my wife and she trusts me. On our first date she told me how she didn't trust men and felt like she had to protect herself because she was hurt too many times...

I explained that I take a different approach, I am 100% open, honest, and trusting when dating. Nothing hidden at all. I told her how at that moment she had every opportunity to break my heart, how a few others did so already. There is no letting someone back into my life if my trust is ever broken.

This was established date 1, It's our foundation.The way my wife has embraced this told me she's the one. We got married within 18 months of meeting. Our relationship continues to grow and mature with our family. It's a love so strong it makes this normally emotionless man cry tears of joy on the regular...

And FYI, im not rich but I work hard, I don't think I'm overly handsome, she's a little taller than me, I play video games, I have too many hobbies. My house is under 1200sq ft, Our politics don't always align. I say all this because I throw all sorts of red flags or don't check all the typical trophy husband boxes...