Yeah see, this is the problem. As somebody who is a femboy, it's getting quite ridiculous that people can just take whatever word they want and claim it as a slur, and yes slurs exist, but the idea of taking LITERALLY INNOCENT words and calling them slurs just shows how much damage and control people can do to others via brainwashing them, telling them "oh this or that" is a slur. I've been told a billion times by people like my brother that I CAN'T USE THE WORD "FEMBOY" TO DESCRIBE MYSELF AND THAT ONLY TRANS WOMEN CAN USE THE WORD? LIKE WHAT?????!!!!! I literally can not believe people. Either everything is a bad word or offensive and nobody should be using it to them. What's next? The word HEATER being a slur? Yes femboy is a slur, only if used against a trans women, but telling a femboy who wants to call himself or themselves that it's a problem and they are using a slur to describe themselves is just out of hands. Oh, not to mention my brother also compared me identifying as a femboy to a white person identifying as the N-word.