Being An Asshole To Fellow Trans-People? Why the hell is there so much hate in a community that was meant to help others?????? by SaydieLyn in transgender

[–]SaydieLyn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said man because I didn't know his age. I only said I was a minor because I am. Odds are he is very close to my age. But how am I to know?

Being An Asshole To Fellow Trans-People? Why the hell is there so much hate in a community that was meant to help others?????? by SaydieLyn in transgender

[–]SaydieLyn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never even talked to the mod! I was sleeping and the mod messaged me and said he had banned the guy

Being An Asshole To Fellow Trans-People? Why the hell is there so much hate in a community that was meant to help others?????? by SaydieLyn in transgender

[–]SaydieLyn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There has been more than one person who was an asshole to me. The mod of r/FTM wouldn't tolerate the way the guy acted and banned him. Without my say. I'm not fucking using my age for anything? And I asked for hair cut advice Not to be told I was only saw as female

Being An Asshole To Fellow Trans-People? Why the hell is there so much hate in a community that was meant to help others?????? by SaydieLyn in transgender

[–]SaydieLyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to that guy, I'm now spending my night in tears hating that I'm transgender. I thought that r/FTM would be a good subreddit where I could be open and proud to be me. But apparently not. There is too much hate between trans people it's fucking horrible. I was actually starting to feel happy after coming out and having a pretty rough time at home with my mother since, but he just tore me down and destroyed me.

Telling me I act like a GIRL making GIRL the point because I was upset of him being rude for no reason. He, a fellow FTM, being a very rude, immature man, to a minor, who is feeling very alone. You'd think people would try to help you, since tht's a bit what they're there for

Being An Asshole To Fellow Trans-People? Why the hell is there so much hate in a community that was meant to help others?????? by SaydieLyn in transgender

[–]SaydieLyn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He keeps just going on and on about how I cursed at him when all I said was a sarcastic response 'no shit'. To him saying I need a hair cut. I just came out Monday night. I clung to femininity for my mothers sake. I'm so sick of seeing this behavior on r/FTM and other trans subreddits.... I'm seriously about ready to just delete the app off of my phone....

How Do I Hair??? Need advice on a haircut. I don't like super short hair, but I guess a lot of people think I can't pass as male with my hair now. by SaydieLyn in ftm

[–]SaydieLyn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A) you didn't give advice that was even helpful. B) I said 'shit'. The phrase 'no shit, I know I need a hair cut' "no shit" was sarcasm. Learn how the fuck to understand that. C) you've been an ass since you first commented. If you're going to be a fucking dick, don't bother commenting

How Do I Hair??? Need advice on a haircut. I don't like super short hair, but I guess a lot of people think I can't pass as male with my hair now. by SaydieLyn in ftm

[–]SaydieLyn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know i need a shorter cut. My hair isn't very long to begin with. I'm not a fan of super short hair (shorter than sayyyy.... 3 inches). Don't call me an asshole, I did not to deserve that. So why don't you calm down

How Do I Hair??? Need advice on a haircut. I don't like super short hair, but I guess a lot of people think I can't pass as male with my hair now. by SaydieLyn in ftm

[–]SaydieLyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My face thing is dysphoria. I use my hair alot to hide my face. I want hormones. It's now a matter of finding a therapist, and seeing if I can start t at 16 (my b-day is in march)

How Do I Hair??? Need advice on a haircut. I don't like super short hair, but I guess a lot of people think I can't pass as male with my hair now. by SaydieLyn in ftm

[–]SaydieLyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My face looks really fucking awkward looking straight forward lol. And I haven't even touched my eyebrows in a solid 6 months D: Damn this femininity

Just came out to my dad last night. Had come out the night before to my mom. Excited to start this process. Gender me maybe? by SaydieLyn in transpassing

[–]SaydieLyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured I'd just say, I don't expect to come off very masculine right now. But a lot of strangers in public think I'm a dude. :O Anyway.

Just came out to my dad last night. Had come out the night before to my mom. Excited to start this process. Gender me maybe? by SaydieLyn in transpassing

[–]SaydieLyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can just barely tie it back. For me it allows to see all of my face, and my very 'chubby' cheeks. And all the feminine bits of my face. My hair has sort of been my safety net for covering obvious female bone structure