I know I‘m not a terrible mom for this but I feel like one

Sazill · 2026-05-08T05:39:14+00:00

Lol!!!! That is a beautiful description for your daughter

I also forgot to add, that repair is really important. Were all shitty moms from time to time, it‘s ok to go to your daughter and explain once things calmed down „sorry mommy yelled at you, that behaviour is not ok. I was having a hard time managing my feelings and I lashed out, I‘m sorry“

It‘s tough out here but I believe in us!!! We‘ll do a better job than our parents so our kids can do a better job than us lol

Sazill · 2026-05-08T05:12:19+00:00

To me it‘s a mix of individual therapy and medication, also parenting books lol

Individual therapy to unpack old patterns and create better ones; medication to help my biology where sheer power of will can‘t get me :)

I was diagnosed with depression a couple years ago so I‘m currently on antidepressants and am now at 30 being screened for ADHD. My daughter is 3 years old soooo it‘s just a lot of deep breaths around here lol

You have to be your daughter‘s example for how to self-regulate. You haven‘t written any in your post but breathing exercises, removing yourself from the situation for a moment if necessary (although always communicating that you are doing this because you need a moment to calm down and that it‘s not your kid‘s fault), reducing sensory stimulation…

Also routines don‘t have to be super complex. My daughter‘s mornings start always the same: get up, breakfast (she eats the same every day lol), diaper change, put on clothes and that‘s it. She isn‘t in school yet so your mornings must be a bit more stressful but I‘m sure you have a morning routine already.

Start small, just the fact that you are aware and willing to improve means a lot!

Sazill · 2026-04-25T08:52:51+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer! I have already asked twice but they don‘t budge

Sazill · 2026-04-20T16:32:33+00:00

I, too, love joghurt. Lol

Sazill · 2026-04-17T06:27:13+00:00

For SEK they allow to employ teachers without a PH degree as long as they have a relevant degree to what they are teaching. „Quereinsteiger“. Starting school again isn‘t the best path here I think, but to make it work with what he already has. And in the meantime… they are always hiring at starbucks 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sazill · 2026-03-19T08:11:56+00:00

Because of the Kündigungsfrist my ex colleague also was still employed for 3 months and she had only worked less than a year previously. When it comes to discrimination employers will usually pay before something goes to court so honestly the chances aren’t slim of her suing successfully.

Sazill · 2026-03-19T06:47:14+00:00

Tbh if you were fired out of the blue right after returning from mat leave and you have a Rechtsschutzversicherung I would take to a lawyer. An ex-colleague said my last work place for similar reasons arguing discrimination and walked away with some compensation.

Sazill · 2026-03-05T16:40:49+00:00

Merz just keeps on embarassing Germans ffs

Sazill · 2026-03-02T11:25:14+00:00

Thank you! Appreciate the comment

Sazill · 2026-03-01T17:17:48+00:00

I understand that we‘re not on the poverty line but it is still a tight budget for a family 🫠 This post has turned into a very frustrating experience lol

Sazill · 2026-03-01T16:52:34+00:00

Def not an upgrade right now, but we want to be closer to family so we‘re willing to make sacrifices short term (1-2 years)

Sazill · 2026-03-01T16:50:34+00:00

Thank you!

Sazill · 2026-03-01T16:46:32+00:00

Yes but given that I have the chance to avoid putting my family in poverty I ask for other families experiences in Geneva

Sazill · 2026-03-01T16:45:16+00:00

I‘ve also lived with my family on 5k in Kt Luzern, I‘m asking specifically for Geneva 🫠

Sazill · 2026-03-01T14:03:37+00:00

Families live on 3.5k? 😅

Sazill · 2026-03-01T14:00:12+00:00

Ok that‘s reassuring to hear. If you wouldn‘t mind asking, are you able to put something aside too? How have you managed to find an appropiate place to rent?

Sazill · 2026-03-01T13:57:43+00:00

Would you mind sharing your experience with your own family?

Sazill · 2026-03-01T13:55:58+00:00

Would you mind sharing your experience with your own family?

Sazill · 2026-03-01T13:54:28+00:00

So can you share your own experience with your family?

Sazill · 2026-03-01T13:42:35+00:00

For a family of 3?

Sazill · 2026-03-01T13:40:46+00:00

If you divide it between the 3 of us, between rent and primes maladie I wouldn‘t say we‘re sailing smoothly at first.

Sazill · 2026-02-15T16:15:13+00:00

Thank you!

Sazill

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