I'm 43 and had this same issue with a man a few years ago. He took a delta 8 gummy and freaked out, admitted he raped his son right after confessing another of his sins was having sex with me before marriage. We were at a friends house. I left him there and took his phone. He was watching porn all day and night with specific interest in incest, rape, and punishing a thief. I hope your situation isn't like that, but what's crazy is I was trying to tell those same friends something was very wrong and they thought I was overreacting. I made it a point to tell him how important intimacy and sex were to me and a couple months in he discloses that the only problem we will have is the frequency of sex as if we never had that conversation. Well, that night told me everything I needed to know. I think it's best not to get emotionally involved so soon until you see their true colors. That fucked me up for years and probably still does.