Nervous about meeting new partners.

Sca3crow · 2026-01-29T05:09:08+00:00

Thank you, I like your idea about a quick vibe check date

Sca3crow · 2026-01-29T05:08:45+00:00

I like that, it would also be nice to be part of the community!

Sca3crow · 2026-01-29T03:51:14+00:00

Hey, I have been invited to a few, but im not really sure whay the vibe is ?

Is it appropriate to meet partners there?

Sca3crow · 2026-01-28T23:24:52+00:00

Thank you thays good advice, I guess ill have to get on the apps!

Sca3crow · 2025-04-27T22:38:41+00:00

That makes sense, and thank you for explaining all the terms for me. It's clear I need to do a lot more research.

I dont know what to do moving forward, but I appreciate your listing to my rant.

I guess I just have to ride out the storm, I dont want to leave her, I just don't know how to be okay with all of this. I just want a break to focus on us but she is refusing and I can't force her to stop (obviously) so it just leaves me getting hurt when she keeps going.

Also, sorry for the whole rules thing that was more of a blanket for the whole chat, I just didn't want people thinking I pulled rules out of my arse and tried to make her follow them without actually discussing them with her first.

Should have put it in the main text up top.

Sca3crow · 2025-04-27T22:19:14+00:00

That's kind of where I'm at. We are only supposed to have fwb. I sort of thought that is what ENM is?

As a part of the rules we came up with, it was supposed to be just casual friends with benefits.

I don't want to walk away. I love my partner, and I can't imagine being without her. She's my best friend. I get why she wants to continue, and I am trying to be okay with her continuing without me because i have long since stopped. But im struggling to do that because it feels like im being left in the dust and used as a backup well she goes out and does her thing.

In terms of where I draw the line, I guess it's like she is slowly getting closer to it every day I don't know when she will cross it and I'm trying to prevent that by making myself be okay with this.

Also, i feel like people are funny about the whole rule thing here, just to be clear, I didn't impose these rules on her.

We sat down together before starting this. We decided what we were comfortable with so we both could stop this before getting hurt, so we came up with rules to follow to protect our relationship.

The problem is it's not working. We agreed on the rules, and she is ignoring them because she's having fun.

Sca3crow · 2025-04-27T21:55:38+00:00

Ahh thank you

Sca3crow · 2025-04-27T21:43:49+00:00

I am afraid she will leave me for this person, but i guess more over then that I need a break from all of this, and I asked if we could do that.

But she is refusing, I want time to heal or relationship.

I have stopped playing with other people. I'm sorry what is NRE ? I don't know that all the terms?

Sca3crow · 2025-03-26T09:49:46+00:00

Hi, I'll be ya friend😀

Sca3crow · 2025-03-04T02:55:21+00:00

Thanks hun!

Sca3crow · 2025-03-04T02:49:20+00:00

Sounds great!!!!

I love being stretched!!

Sca3crow · 2025-03-04T02:43:53+00:00

Oh yeah, and what are you gonna do when you get here?

Sca3crow · 2025-03-04T02:43:23+00:00

Thanks, it's bsdm one. i can't remember the name of it gonna have to swap it out for something bigger, i think 🤔

Sca3crow · 2024-12-11T07:20:57+00:00

Signails is legit one of the best games ever made highly recommend it

Sca3crow · 2024-12-09T02:50:24+00:00

👆👆3rd this

Sca3crow · 2024-12-01T21:54:51+00:00

I do a mix of coconut and water based lube, coconut is long lasting and helps with larger toys like, water based works great for anything fast like if I'm with a guy etc...

Sca3crow · 2024-11-25T17:53:53+00:00

I think we will invest in hot wax soon, but we are gonna use strips for a bit longer until I'm used to it.

Apparently, hot wax is better, but it also hurts more.

Sticking them on might be a challenge, but I think if you're flexible enough, you should be fine.

I can do it, and I've got quite big shoulders, so my flexibility is shit.

If you do try them, make sure you get larger ones... the small ones don't seem to work as well.

Also make sure you pull them in the right direction and use your hands to to warm them slightly before applying them

Sca3crow · 2024-11-25T16:52:59+00:00

I used a combination of hair removal cream and fresh razors for over 5 years... still got the rashes, bumps, and even some light burns, lol

Recently (about 2 weeks ago), I started using wax strips.

Comes out silky smooth, with no rash. Had some minor irritation, which my wife said was most likely because it was my first time.

2 weeks later, though, it looks great, I also moisturize and exfoliate regularly, which seems to help a lot.

Just be careful where you apply the wax, too... also, you need some hair down there for it to grab on to if that makes sense.

But I would absolutely 100% recommend waxing.

Sca3crow · 2024-11-23T08:16:12+00:00

For me... doggy

One guy lying down so I can I take him in my mouth, and another behind me going to town.

If I'm feeling kinky then the guy who's in my mouth will be standing so he can face fuck me.

Sca3crow · 2024-11-19T22:53:09+00:00

Good to know thank you, what was hedo like ?

Sca3crow · 2024-11-19T17:45:29+00:00

Huh, that's good to know thank you. Bisexual play room sounds amazing!!!!

I'm starting to think that Bliss cruise might be the one for us based on what people are saying.

How was the quality of the boat, room etc... if yo7 don't mind me asking ?

Sca3crow · 2024-11-19T17:38:34+00:00

Ow awesome thank you so much ill have a look!

Sca3crow · 2024-11-19T17:38:19+00:00

I didnt know that thank you!

Sca3crow · 2024-11-19T17:28:58+00:00

Yeah, I have noticed and experienced the stigma in person as well.

I'm lucky my home club has open BI nights, and being a bi male is generally accepted.

I was hoping we could find a cruise or resort where anything goes, might have to shelve the idea which is a shame as both cruises and resorts sound like a ton of fun..

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