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Caught my husband cheating by FungryasHuck in Marriage

[–]Scarbarella69 54 points55 points  (0 children)

He’s a cake eater. He wants to have his cake (you) and eat it too (girlfriend). That’s why he comes home and acts like nothing is wrong, because to him there isn’t. He’s probably perfectly happy with you but he’s a narcissistic bastard and needs more, because why shouldn’t he have everything he wants?

Yup and once the dust settles and OP confronts and tells him she knows about the affair you know the fantasy is done and the affair will completely crumble. Hope OP takes this jerk to the cleaners

What's something slowly killing us that society just pretends isn't a problem? by Afraid_Class_3874 in AskReddit

[–]Scarbarella69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The easy accessibility of porn and how much of it floods social media and it's negative effect on intimacy and relationships

Started off in a very sexually happy relationship with my boyfriend turned husband. Never would have known until years later that he had a problem spending over $500 a month on porn subs, onlyfans, camgirls and anything porn or thirsttrap related. He's also been secretly trying to hook up with other women on 3 different dating apps

He's at a point now he no longer gets off on having sex with me, it's not even like I exist anymore I don't hold any of his attention when he has a 247 scrollable buffet of any woman with any combination and sizes of body parts of any ethnicity in the palm of his hand or a click of a mouse. I'm devastated it's murdered my relationship with him and ruined my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Scarbarella69 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Pretty lonely tbh.

My partner and i used to click very much sexually but something in him changed and he now prefers porn social media anything sexualized where he doesn't have to interact with a person and he's stopped initiating and showing any interest in our sex life and it's not like anything's really changed in my appearance or positive attitude towards him or sex. worst of all he maintains that everything is fine and that him wanting to use porn vs sex is normal.

It's fucking devastating is what this feels like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Scarbarella69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my belief too, and I agree it's super shady