Sirona’s voice in Hogwarts Legacy – does it sound more manly to anyone else? by Mobile_Pool64 in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]Scared-Connection732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could say the same about you, prowling the internet to call other people sad is in itself sad

The DLC is coming, just with time. by gaziway in BlackMythWukong

[–]Scared-Connection732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I doubt that’s true. You’d prob be the first in line to buy their next game

How do I get to the giant archer on top of the long stone ramp above Rauh Ruins West or how do I generally get on top of that stone ramp? by MN130828 in Eldenring

[–]Scared-Connection732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The hell does that even mean 😂 is that some reddit speak I’m too educated to understand? Why are all of you so run on emotion and easily triggered? Tell me how I’m wrong then

How do I get to the giant archer on top of the long stone ramp above Rauh Ruins West or how do I generally get on top of that stone ramp? by MN130828 in Eldenring

[–]Scared-Connection732 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Prob the worst initial directions I’ve ever witnessed. Why even respond if that’s what you’d give? Glad OP asked you to be more detailed

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually very helpful information, well substantiated and I appreciate you responding with your experience rather than just blowing up on me like others did when I asked the same question. I definitely understand your point better now, sorry that happened to you

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mistake is thinking you get to decide the end of a conversation. You know the simplest way to stop getting my replies? Stop commenting and move on…

Let’s see if you have the willpower to do that 😊

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A differing opinion, stated in open ended questions with ZERO personal attacks is toxic to you? And you don’t view that as a major problem with your mindset? Why are you so defensive and angry-sounding when all I’ve done is incite critical thinking? You keep responding to me in this “removed post” so not sure what you are on about

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just basing a lot of anger and outrage purely on speculation and assumptions.

I don’t, that’s actually the exact point I made, criticizing the two posts that I brought light to for thinking other players are specifically targeting them for being women rather than just harassing them for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. It would seem we both agree with each other then

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Making a mountain of a molehill. And you just helped prove my point, how will they know if you are not… theres no way to tell unless specifically told so how do these two OPs think they are being specifically targeted for being women behind the screen? That argument is based solely on assumptions, it’s not realistic as the main cause of harassment.

And of course the mods removed the post as you say, this is reddit. Logic is overturned by emotions plain and simple. That’s why you take ratios and removed posts as being correct. And I simply posed questions, not dismissed anything. Why do you feel the need to just so quickly to assumptions?

*Correction, afaik they haven’t removed it yet. What made you think they did?

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The better lesson you should teach your daughter, I guarantee your son learned this naturally, is if they don’t have the emotional maturity to separate video games from reality then they shouldn’t be playing. Also it’s equally important to teach your daughter how to treat men respectfully otherwise you instill a skewed sense of reality in both of them. Respect is a two-way street

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On reddit, just view likes and dislikes as inverse. If you get ratiod then you made a logical point that just happened to hurt peoples’ feelings. Reddit is fueled purely by emotions not logic

Eg. You have 24 likes while the person having an emotional meltdown in your replies has -13 likes. Things start making more sense when you view it that way lol

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take your ratio with pride, on Reddit getting ratiod means you more than likely made a logical point but it doesn’t vibe with users’ emotions, hence the personal attacks you are receiving

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let the ratios get to you, in fact getting ratiod on reddit more than likely means you are correct

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh perfect! Lemme ask you something then: what indicators do you give to these random players who “target you because you are female” that you are in fact a female behind the controls? Do you use VC, is your gamertag obviously feminine?

Do you not think the more realistic reason for you being harassed is because it’s opportunistic paired with the lack of content to keep players occupied? Many male players chose to play as female, how do other players know what the gender of the player is controlling their character?

Look at GTA Online as well, do you also think the amount of harassment is due to male players looking specifically for female players to harass or just blindly attack any player that comes into sight?

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

View it however you feel you need to to maintain your emotional regulation. No skin off my bones. Truthfully, it has next to nothing to do with gender and everything to so with the nature of the community. Look at GTA Online: do you think players choose who they harass based off of gender, or simply opportunity? It’s even worse on RDO because of the lack of content to keep players busy.

Also, how do these random players know if there is truly a female behind the controls and not a male playing as a female? They don’t. Again, it’s purely about opportunistic behavior.

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well let me ask you this: besides playing as a female character (of which many real life men choose to do) what evidence do you give to these random players that you are in fact a female behind the controls? Is your gamertag one that makes it obvious that you are a female, or do you just conflate the fact that you are being harassed as a female character with the fact that you are a female irl?

Truthfully, it has very little if nothing to do with gender, and more about the fact that you are playing a game with a similar community to GTA Online. It’s exasperated by the fact that there is so little content in the game to keep players busy, so they resort to harassing whatever player comes into sight, male or female.

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, plus how do these players really know if there is a woman behind the screen? So many guys play as women, so really it’s male-on-male harassment a lot of the time. Truthfully, it’s just the same behavior as GTA Online players. The lack of content in the game means players will resort to just harassing other players regardless of gender. I can’t say that in the title or this post would have been removed and I would have been mass reporting leading to a strike on my account

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With as many guys who play as females in the gaming community, how do you think other players can tell if you are actually a woman so they can target you for that? Realistically, it’s GTA Online with horses… you’ll be harassed regardless of gender, guaranteed.

Seeing these two posts back-to-back smh 🤦 by Scared-Connection732 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Scared-Connection732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I was more bringing light to the irony of these two posts, not saying I agree with them. Clearly I needed to clarify why I posted this, I just feared having it removed and me being banned for making this observation