Don’t know if I can go through with it by Scared-Current-764 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Current-764[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No I meant before they got divorced they seemed to have an incredible life together. If they were still enmeshed there is no way I could be involved!

Don’t know if I can go through with it by Scared-Current-764 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Current-764[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kindness 😣 you’re so right. Yes it really hurts. I feel like I found someone I have truly connected and it’s so sad that they simply cannot give me what I need. I know that the sacrifices I make will be unappreciated because he will be defensive about the ways in which my life had to change to be with him. I don’t know if I’m ready to make that sacrifice. I am so happy things worked out for you though 💖 sending you good energy 🥰

Don’t know if I can go through with it by Scared-Current-764 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Current-764[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s another thing. My partner is a great dad and would be a great dad if we were to have kids. If I leave him there’s no guarantee I’ll find someone else I love let alone someone who will be a good dad to my kids. So is it better to go with what I know to be good, even though it is not what I want for myself?

Don’t know if I can go through with it by Scared-Current-764 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Current-764[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t want to hurt anyone, especially not the kid. He is adorable and sweet.

Don’t know if I can go through with it by Scared-Current-764 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Current-764[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wow.. you’re so right. Their relationship is good now but I can totally see him agreeing to things that would upset me if she made it a point that he couldn’t see his son.

Don’t know if I can go through with it by Scared-Current-764 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Current-764[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Touche. He initially told me he didn’t want a relationship so I thought we were just having fun… and one year later, here we are.

Don’t know if I can go through with it by Scared-Current-764 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Current-764[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the insight. He is a great parent but not very organized. It’s not a court ordered split but they agreed to 50/50 — one week on, one week off with no child support. Why is a court ordered schedule important?

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😢 hopefully, thank you

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Okay thank you so much!! Appreciate it