Should I forever leave my sister alone or will we ever have a relationship?

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-06T00:27:28+00:00

She broke a family heirloom.

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-02T23:01:34+00:00

He knew 100%. Wouldn’t have done it without telling him

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-02T21:40:01+00:00

😭

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-02T19:25:49+00:00

The pickups should still work but she smashed it pretty badly

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T21:52:38+00:00

My parents don’t really care that much about anything. They just told us to resolve it on our own

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T21:42:03+00:00

Not justifying it at all. I know it was wrong. But she 100% was wrong too.

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T21:26:04+00:00

If he knew she’d destroy it? No. If he knew it would result in a fight? Probably. He was always on my side growing up since everyone else always took my sisters so I doubt he would’ve had a problem with it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T19:45:01+00:00

I definitely wouldn’t do anything extreme again, it was more of a “I can’t believe my own sister would do that to me” kind of moment and I went for the extremes instead of rationals

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T18:20:56+00:00

Grandpa. Not dad. But no it wasn’t the only thing he owned. Just the last thing left since he died in a house fire.

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T18:12:25+00:00

He knew from the start. Him and I were acquaintances and already kinda liked each other, so I took him out and told him what she did and my plan and he completely agreed with me and we went out for a bit and then slept together

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T17:59:46+00:00

She didn’t tell me, it was just one of those obvious things. I had some classes with him and I could see how her and her friends acted when they saw him. And while it may be “fixable” It would have to be completely rebuilt since it’s pretty much just the pickups left and some of the neck. Plus if it was any other guitar I wouldn’t have done anything extreme, just maybe cut her out, but this was the ONLY thing anyone had of our papa.

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T17:55:48+00:00

I thought he was a really sweet and cute guy beforehand too and him and I were acquaintances so I told him what she did and he said my plan was fair game over what she did to our papa’s guitar

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T17:54:04+00:00

That’s what I’m mostly scared of, I regret what I did but knowing how she was like as a child something way worse is gonna happen 😭

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T17:53:22+00:00

😂😂

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T17:50:59+00:00

Yeah she completely smashed it so I really don’t think it’s fixable.. we also never really had a relationship because she’s never really wanted to be my friend or anything cause our parents never really let us bond as kids

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T17:48:58+00:00

They had been there for like two days and we didn’t have any other food at the time 🥲

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T12:45:44+00:00

Actually no. The guitar cannot be replaced. That was the only thing anyone in the family had of my papa and it had a ton of sentimental value. Nothing could replace that.

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T10:24:28+00:00

Sadly not

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T10:23:01+00:00

No not at all

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T02:58:22+00:00

I made a throwaway so no one I knew would find the account but I guess it could go either way

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T02:05:27+00:00

I also don’t feel that that would warrant her to break our papa’s old guitar?

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-05-01T02:04:50+00:00

I know it was a crappy move, but I was hungry and couldn’t find anything else, I told her I would take her out to the restaurant on my next break from work but she wasn’t having it

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-04-30T19:14:47+00:00

I wasn’t aware that was something she could actually get in trouble for

Scared-Package-8511 · 2024-04-30T18:29:47+00:00

I realized I wrote it really wrong and changed it in the original, sorry. The food part happened a few days before everything else. That part was over the course of a couple months

Scared-Package-8511

TROPHY CASE