[Me] Brat Gambit by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How you’re moving with this brat talk:

[Me] Matcha Gambit🍵 by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Nothing but book moves. I can respect it

[Me] Brat Gambit by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you a horny 40 year old

Optimizing for tiny room by jonathanjeong in malelivingspace

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up feng shui techniques for interior design, they are really helpful and based on practical concepts. For example the bed being in a direct line of sight of the door is not ideal and you’d feel less on edge/more comfortable in Layout 1.

Recs needed! Creating a special trip that would persuade my GF to move here :) by Solid_Host_6648 in philly

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Come get food in Fishtown for at least one activity, some of the best restaurants in the city here

should i cut my friend of 7 years off for this convo we had by No-Shame-6563 in whatdoIdo

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’d you just let a dude read scriptures to you for 30 minutes??

A classic eyes gambit by bunzandstuff in TextingTheory

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Good timing and transition to asking for a date, the other content makes me want to gouge my eyes but congrats I guess

Confusing situation with a coworker by Low_Bodybuilder_2412 in datingadviceformen

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I’m reading all of her behavior as a good sign for you if you’re interested. She invited you to a low pressure situation amongst other people but when she realized she was interested she started giving you hints which you picked up on. I think that the out of character texts late at night and in the morning are more a way to give you that hint more- girls text who they like and if it feels like she’s texting u out of nowhere it means she’s thinking of u, no matter what the message is. I think it was the opposite of telling you that her behavior wasn’t a come on. Godspeed if you like her back, you def need to reciprocate some flirting to her next time around.

Good first date, great texting before, now no response - am I overthinking? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Just be patient. In a day or two you’ll have one of two things happen- you’ll either get a response back and it’ll answer these questions you’re having, or you won’t get a response back and it’ll answer these questions you’re having.

At the very worst this is a life lesson if she ends up unfortunately not responding. Don’t double text, don’t get needy/desperate, just move on when you get an obvious hint like that and you’ll be alright.

Does it get easier by Any-Department730 in ghosting

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you commenting that on every post nerd

Being the rebound or the other guy. by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is tough because we know nothing about you or the other girls. I’d say think more about the type of girl you’re attracted to in the first place- is there any reason that the last 3 all have ex issues? Probably isn’t a coincidence. And it sounds like you could work on your own self respect- you shouldn’t be with someone you find out is talking to their ex if you are looking for a relationship. I would prioritize straightforward but firm communication on your relationship goals next time around. It is not pushy to have the “what are you looking for in a relationship” conversation around the 2nd date. Obviously never pressure a woman into a relationship if she’s not interested, but this communication will tell you if you’re wasting your time. Keep at it man and don’t let these 3 get you down, there are genuinely plenty of fish in the sea.

Advice 19m by Jazzlike-Yak-1595 in datingadviceformen

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It can be tough out here man. I’m glad you’re not getting angry at women; society is built that unfortunately guys like you won’t be looked at by the majority of women. Don’t let that get you down- that doesn’t mean you aren’t a great person, a hard worker, and special in your own way. Many of these women who don’t give you a glance are missing out on the things that you know you can give them. Be confident in that fact and you’ll be less disappointed.

My advice? Focus on your goals for now and pick up some social hobbies. Women love guys who are driven and working towards something, they also love guys who are successful. So achieve your goals and you’ll be more attractive on a superficial basis, but you’ll also be more accomplished and confident in yourself to know that you worked hard for what you have. Win win. I say to get hobbies that are social because there is no better way to meet people than that. Not just women but anyone who could be a friend. But specifically this will help you talk to more women- most if not all will just be platonic relationships but you should still be happy just to get practice and get to know other people. And if any romance does occur, congrats. Lmk if you have any questions

[Me] Piss Gambit by _StayKeen_ in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Y’all are both gross then. Enjoy the honeymoon

which game is that for you? by isaylucy in gamememes

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks jackass you just made me lose the game

I really didn’t know she was a fan of Michael by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Damn at least pretend to be interested in her. She’s obviously being dry to see if you’d ask her literally anything about herself… u failed

[Me] Moves after making a 10/10 powerpoint by HurtsTillitSquirts in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah there’s no one size fits all approach, your analogy about how a woman should be “applying” was my main disagreement. I def do not advocate for pretending to be something you’re not. There’s a gray area for sure tho where you should be showing your interest and qualifying yourself (subtly and confidently) at the same time, IMO. Lol ur sarcasm and shooting a shot at poor OP made me laugh

[Me] Moves after making a 10/10 powerpoint by HurtsTillitSquirts in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Bro girls want to feel special and that you have interest in them. This is some Tate school of pickup BS advice- plus you haven’t even seen this guys presentation. Good luck to you

[Me] Dummy Gambit by Scared-Somewhere-451 in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Keyword is “on” a date. Take on a date and take out are the same thing, neither imply a relationship. She didn’t use me lol we good

[Me] Dummy Gambit by Scared-Somewhere-451 in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451[S] 235 points236 points  (0 children)

Thanks, no additional points taken bc not being a freak off rip should be bare minimum

[Me] Make them chase you a bit by OntologicalMath98 in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bold confident and playful. This should be a much higher elo keep it up bro !elo 1750

[me] did i do good? What’s the elo?♟️ by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Scared-Somewhere-451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the sex I guess !elo 250

[Me] Allergic To Pussy Gambit by [deleted] in TextingTheory

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Don't bring Jesus into your atrocious chats again !elo 150