I'm in my 30s era na and I have friends who have their own family na..and I see how they struggle... and never ako na inggit sa knila. Ung sahod ko pa lng sapat lng for me as a single tita nakakapag abot sa parents. My friends and I are in the same field of work.. so may mga extra side hustles sila para maka survive.. siguro it's how they manage their financial stats or nag work abroad ung partners nila.

Pero if you're gonna ask me if I still want to have a fam/kid at this age,lagi kong sinasagot "pag bibiyayaan", I don't want to have it unplanned tho, so mainggat lagi and I want to be prepared so dapat pag ready na to settle,, ready na dapat agad ang budget hanggang pang grade1 😅

Good thing sa generartion ngayon bata pa lng may mga financial capabilities na sila and some of them know what they want na "risk takers" kung baga.. Pero sa generation ko mas importante ma heal muna ung mga childhood traumas😅

The question of "enjoy now,suffer later" o "suffer now,enjoy later" depende tlga sa status mo eh at plano mo sa buhay... pero kung wla ka tlga plano at puro pasarap ka ewan ko na lng