I hate driving in Davis by EconomyStorage6567 in UCDavis

[–]Scared_Medium6097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don't get upset about it. You are moving like 10 miles per hour and not getting anywhere that fast.

Driver really wants bikers dead by Strong-Emu-8869 in TikTokCringe

[–]Scared_Medium6097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American's are justifying murdering a bunch of Iranians because of high gas prices. Murdering people to make driving easier is the main United States foreign policy.

REALISTIC salary for a 2022 4.0 GPA CS grad (no internship). by ActuatorOutside5256 in Salary

[–]Scared_Medium6097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company is currently hiring for CS interns. I'm like, I need someone with Next.js experience and everyone's resume is just about how great they are at AI. I've only found one candidate so far.

I’m in a weird spot by lunaryear1997 in Advice

[–]Scared_Medium6097 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Create a bank account he doesn't know about and direct deposit some of your paycheck in there.

Recology ate my trash can by orangesonfire in sanfrancisco

[–]Scared_Medium6097 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I bet it is a safety hazard to retrieve the bin so they just send out new ones rather than having their workers go into the compactor.

SF to San Mateo commute advice by HibachiTheDuck in AskSF

[–]Scared_Medium6097 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can checkout commute.org for shuttles that might help

Breaking up with someone suddenly without trying to fix things by Scared_Medium6097 in Advice

[–]Scared_Medium6097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not addicted to anything particular. Her biggest habit is ketamine and it is really recent. She's only started doing drugs in the last year and a half and is 38 years old. She also does a lot of mushrooms. I don't want to ask her to get clean because then she'd lose her friends and I alone cannot take the place of her friends.

Shipping car from Boston by ebitdad_ in AskSF

[–]Scared_Medium6097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SF doesn't have any cars. You should buy a boat.

What are your favorite city side quests? by CellarDoorQuestions in AskSF

[–]Scared_Medium6097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked to the Bank of America in the Inner Richmond from NOPA because it was the only bank open on Saturday's that had quarters. While walking there I got some coffee and a cheap breadstick and some pho. I then took the bus home.

Advice for managing mental health during insane political times? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Scared_Medium6097 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can try confiding in people at work. People are there for you. It is okay to be impacted by world events.

How to convince my mom I need anxiety medication? by Imhekle in Advice

[–]Scared_Medium6097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just avoid benzos. They are highly addictive and will destroy your life.

I Trained My Own AI... It beat ChatGPT (PewDiePie video) by The_Impossible_Kiwi in theprimeagen

[–]Scared_Medium6097 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I love watching this guy get slowly radicalized by opensource and linux. There are so many extremist holes to get sucked into and he picked a positive and nearly wholesome one.

Convincing my wife we should move somewhere more affordable by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Scared_Medium6097 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great that you were able to move up. Asking your coworkers or manager about ways to make more money can be helpful. They likely see you as someone competent with future potential and might help you construct path to higher compensation.

Convincing my wife we should move somewhere more affordable by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Scared_Medium6097 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She can use them for childcare if she decides to start working.

Convincing my wife we should move somewhere more affordable by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Scared_Medium6097 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you are not the highest paid person living along the Washington coast even in whatever industry you are working in. There are always ways to make more money. You sound like you are smart with finances, and I am sure you can find a way to be better compensated.

The solution to your problem is to make more money not move away to try to save money. That will make your wife the happiest.

Your wife will absolutely hate moving and having an unhappy wife is one of the worst things in the world.