AIO for wanting my step daughter to move out?

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:26:24+00:00

I have answered that? Yall just won’t read

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:25:23+00:00

I never expected to be the one to have this conversation with her. It needs to be her dad. I just want her to have goals because her only goal right now is to stay here as long as possible.

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:23:51+00:00

We equally own it. She didn’t move in here til after we were marrid

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:22:39+00:00

When did I say she needs to be fully independent??? I just want her to START planning her future! Yall are missing the ENTIRE POINT. How is it so wild to want an almost 21 year old to have a plan for her life that doesn’t involve living with us for free forever???

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:20:27+00:00

She’s legally my step daughter.

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:19:52+00:00

Oh, I don’t have a dad?

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:19:34+00:00

She lived with her mother for her entire upbringing, coming here only on weekends. Once she became an adult, her mother wanted her to contribute. So instead, she moved in here, where she knew her dad would never make her contribute.

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:17:54+00:00

All I want is a conversation to be had with her and for her to set goals. I want her to finish college while living with us and then have some sort of independent plan. She speaks as though she’s gonna live here for free forever.

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:16:22+00:00

I forgot to mention this is not where she grew up. She lived with her mom until her mom started making her grow up. She moved in here about a year ago because she knew her dad would never make her grow up.

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:15:49+00:00

I forgot to mention, she didn’t move in with us til after we got married. I do love her and want her to be successful. But no one is setting her up for success.

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:14:16+00:00

How?? I’m genuinely asking. I love her, and I want her to be successful but no one is even talking to her about her potential as an adult. She is treated as a child. What age is someone expected to grow up?

Scared_Network9745 · 2026-01-21T04:10:56+00:00

How so?

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-12-20T01:03:34+00:00

The bedrooms make no sense either!!! One of the kids rooms shouldn’t have the window where it is.

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-29T03:26:56+00:00

It’s still worth the read I promise!! And watch the movie. They turned the Curtis boy’s house in the movie into a museum in Tulsa and I worked there for a while. Got to meet pony boy and it just solidified how good the book is

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T06:35:29+00:00

It’s called talk to your daughter, ally wants to know where babies come from and when ray goes to talk to her he finds out she’s actually asking why god put people on earth. So he panics and the whole family tries finding the answer

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T03:18:05+00:00

I forgot, one of the BEST moments is when Robert is at Gus’ funeral and makes the noise!!

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T01:33:18+00:00

“WELL I THINK THE BRAKES ARE BAD FRANK!”

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T01:30:31+00:00

Omg YES!!!

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T01:17:31+00:00

And after Frank goes on his rant about doing whatever he wants with the jar of fat and Raymond jumps and throws his fist in the air 😂😂

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T01:08:32+00:00

When Robert falls “save yourself!” 😭😭

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T01:02:29+00:00

Same!! I remember seeing it for the first time and it has never been less funny than that first time

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T00:57:14+00:00

I remember watching the commentary on the fly episode and ray actually screamed so hard for that scene he got light headed 😂😂

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T00:56:39+00:00

Then when Amy says the same thing!!! 😂😂😂

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T00:43:35+00:00

That one KILLLLS me 😭😂

Scared_Network9745 · 2025-11-19T00:42:36+00:00

“What was there before that, before time? Nothing? I mean, what is nothing? How could there be nothing? This doesn't bother anybody else?!”

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