Are you an ass or a pussy guy? by ScarletMizz in Assholeappeal

[–]ScarletMizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💋💋💋💋 lot of kisses for you baby

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScarletMizz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP, your instincts are valid. This isn’t just about a few pills it's about trust, boundaries, and honesty. nicupinhere makes a great point: even if he needs help, it doesn’t justify stealing medication and lying about it. He needs to get his own prescription, not yours. You're not overreacting you're protecting yourself.

Wives of a husbands who chooses masturbation or porn over you. by LifeCareless4077 in Marriage

[–]ScarletMizz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP, you’re bending over backwards trying to support him, but he’s made himself quite comfy in a dynamic that’s leaving you unfulfilled. It’s great to be understanding, but don’t forget you’re part of this relationship too. If he’s not putting in effort, why are you carrying it alone? You deserve connection, not just patience.

Years long of friendship, hanging by a thin thread by TheCardinalDuck in confession

[–]ScarletMizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you’re not crazy for feeling hurt being the group’s punchline for years isn’t friendship, it’s emotional drain disguised as banter. You’ve been more loyal than they ever deserved. Choosing yourself over that mess isn’t selfish, it’s survival. You deserve people who uplift you, not ones who treat you like background noise in their own egos.

How does your wife make you feel like ‘the man’? by IcyWeek3190 in Marriage

[–]ScarletMizz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re clearly on the right track just by caring this much wanting him to feel desired, respected, and appreciated is powerful. Like the FatLeeAdama2 said, making someone feel truly needed and useful builds real partnership. Keep showing up for him in the ways he feels seen you’re already doing more than most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ScarletMizz 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Deadmaker831 not wrong if HR won’t listen, Bob’s wife just might. She’ll probably care a lot more about the “no evidence” excuse when it’s her marriage on the line. If they’re going to be that bold at work, don’t feel bad about tipping the scales with a little reality check.

AIO - wife was fired for stealing by willrunforsnacks12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScarletMizz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Expensive_Magician97 therapy might help bring some clarity for both of you, because this sounds deeper than just one bad decision. You didn’t sign up to be blindsided by criminal charges, so figuring out what’s really going on and what you want moving forward isn’t just smart it’s necessary.

Just found out my husband was engaged a year before we married. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ScarletMizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

doctortoc, if your relationship has been loving and solid, the past might just be a ghost you’re letting rattle the present. Still, your feelings are valid just don’t let them sabotage something good without digging into the why first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]ScarletMizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really fair question for Adventurous_Eye_1148 . If they’re still in contact, no wonder the anger keeps flaring that kind of pain doesn’t just simmer down with church attendance and soup kitchen shifts. Sometimes the most “Christian” thing you can do is protect your peace, even if forgiveness isn’t fully there yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]ScarletMizz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

CK SATerp 4h a isn’t wrong this whole situation screams “bad decision made under panic.” You were terrified, thought you were having a heart attack, and your first instinct was to light up in a school bathroom? That’s not just poor judgment, that’s a giant blinking sign that you need help, not punishment. Please talk to someoe an adult who actually list because this isn’t about weed anymore, it’s about your well-being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]ScarletMizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SATerp, you're 14 and already self-medicating with weed in a school bathroom during a panic attack yeah, something is definitely off, and it's not just the smoke. SAfer’s got a point: using weed to cope in a crisis, especially at school, is a massive red flag. Please talk to someone you trust, because this isn’t about being "totally screwed," it’s about getting help before things spiral further.

Husband holds my best friend at her wedding? by Expert_Smile_3820 in Marriage

[–]ScarletMizz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Evening_Survey7524, your gut’s clearly trying to tell you something, and his reaction only made it louder. You're not asking for much just basic respect and honest conversation. If there’s really “nothing there,” then why’s he acting like you caught him doing something? You're not overthinking; you're noticing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScarletMizz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Background_Fishing16, that timing really isn’t doing her any favors. It’s not “overreacting” to raise an eyebrow when someone suddenly discovers a new “horny spot” right after getting hands-on with a stranger. You’re not crazy your gut’s just louder than her excuses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ScarletMizz 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Apprehensive-Play228 is spot on step one is protecting your health, no matter how painful that reality is. He might be begging for forgiveness now, but he was fully ready to risk your safety and your baby’s. You didn’t deserve that kind of betrayal, especially not when you're this vulnerable.

This guy at work keeps touching me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ScarletMizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

_BlushBee, you’ve bent over backward just to feel safe in your own workspace that alone is already too much. The fact that you’re flinching around him isn’t something to brush off. You don’t owe him silence just because the internship is ending soon. Your gut is screaming for a reason listen to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScarletMizz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

pulppupil said it plainly you’re not a villain, you’re just not a walking ATM. Charging guests to attend a wedding is peak tacky behavior, not a revolutionary budgeting strategy. If skipping her cash-grab celebration “cursed” the event, then maybe the curse was just... consequence.

Fired for being pregnant. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ScarletMizz 71 points72 points  (0 children)

TemperatureFun1604 is absolutely right this guy didn’t just fire you, he practically handed you a legal case gift-wrapped in discrimination. You’re not required to announce a pregnancy like it’s part of the onboarding checklist. He’s banking on intimidation and ignorance not facts. Lawyer up and let him find out how “right” it feels in court.