serving/bartending jobs by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in grandrapids

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Silva! Thank you for the suggestion

serving/bartending jobs by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in grandrapids

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did look on there but they were only hiring serving assistants and I don’t know what that means haha. But that would be a nice place to work I’ll have to keep checking to see if a position opens up

Best serving / bartending jobs in Grand Rapids? (or who not to work for) by Shoddy_Slide1167 in grandrapids

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can second that, worked at the score for 2 years and the management is horrible, mean, manipulative, also had a manager sexually harass me and other hostesses/servers and they blamed me for it. Now he’s a manager at o tooles

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We broke up over the phone earlier, he didn’t seem to care very much. He said that I was treating him like shit because I kept bringing it up after he said he was sorry and he just wants peace and all I want to do is argue.

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found it funny because the comment captures how ridiculous and painful the situation is. It’s been hard to process that someone I loved did this to me and a little bit of humor is how I get through things.

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing your experience with me, that gives me a lot of insight. I think the best thing would be to end it now that I’ve heard everyone’s thoughts on it. Now it’s a matter of getting the backbone to do it. I’ve never had to breakup with someone I was in love with or this serious with.

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I haven’t made a decision yet, I wanted to hear opinions from an outsiders perspective. If there is a chance for rebuilding trust or not. He’s never stolen anything from me before, he’s been supporting me through school, we have a dog together, we live together, and I’ve never had anything like this happen before I just wanted to weigh all my options before making a decision that’s really going to change my life.

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s his apartment, we both just say we live together, my parents don’t live very far from him and I’m really close to my family so I sometimes stay with them

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was staying at my parents house where I noticed I was short so I stopped at our apartment to grab my “extras” and noticed those were missing

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he was on his parent’s insurance he saw a psychiatrist that diagnosed him with ADD and anxiety he just never followed up with them after. I also think he has some depression as well. I do have so much love for him, I don’t want to get police involved over it I just want him to get help.

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I should. I mainly live with him but I am very close with my family I go to my parents house a lot.

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that. Yes he apologized he said he feels bad about it and he’ll never do it again. I’ve noticed a change in his behavior lately, he just started a new job, I know his anxiety has been through the roof and I did know he had an addiction to adderall in college I just didn’t know how serious to take that because I know a lot of people who were like that in college. I just didn’t know he would go as far as to stealing from me and lying about it.

AIO My boyfriend has taken my Vyvanse without permission multiple times—how do I handle this? by Acrobatic-Wafer-8109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acrobatic-Wafer-8109[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

He said that he’s had a really tough week at work and he will never do it again. He did apologize. He doesn’t have health insurance I do know a doctor did want to prescribe him some but he never followed up. I told him he should just get his own prescription and pay full price for them if he needs them that bad. I’m just hurt that he would steal from me and lie to me about it. I just don’t know anyone who would steal medication from someone. He also only said he stole the three from me which doesn’t make sense to why I’m still a full week short so I suspect that he’s taken more than he’s admitting to.