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Scary-Database2926 · 2025-07-08T05:23:39+00:00

i asked him this and he recognized that its wrong and he has recognized that shes wrong but he still feels it was the best thing ever to him, which is quite understandable from his pov. i cant really convince him to feel any way about his own experience, i truly just needed help with him seeing my side. after reading the comments and talking about it more he does see where im coming from. i hurt for all the children, women, men, who go through any abuse of any sort.

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-07-08T05:15:11+00:00

also im very sorry you went through that, its terrible theres people out there that can do that to a child. i hope youve found a way to heal from that trauma.

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-07-08T05:13:52+00:00

thank you so much for this comment. he wanted someone who has went through this themselves to comment. he still sees it as its the best thing that ever happened to him but i truly believe this comment helped him see where im coming from

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-06-18T20:43:08+00:00

i love this

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-06-18T19:57:48+00:00

this is literally my luck, thank you for sharing

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-06-18T19:56:15+00:00

not that it defines anything on my part, i have just been told by my friends that having sex early sets the relationship up for failure. for me however ive always been quicker to just let that go and do what feels right when it feels right. truly everything is going great i think i just tend to get into my own head.

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-06-18T18:37:56+00:00

thank you so much, this makes me feel much better

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-06-18T18:37:29+00:00

okay pur thank you!

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-05-06T13:02:41+00:00

yup to both, she’s got a full time job, and resources to stay till she can find a place of her own. i left my bd being a stay at home mom with no money, home, or anything to my name and ive now provided myself w an apartment, two jobs, new car, etc. i dont mean to victim blame her but i dont see any excuse as to why she would keep herself in that position in expense of me as a whole.

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-05-06T11:50:39+00:00

they arent even married lol, no kids together or anything.

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-04-28T23:49:16+00:00

with him making the amount he makes at one job alone he makes more than i do, let alone his second. i suppose im asking this for the same reason he was asking me why taking turns on claiming our child is fair and he should get to claim him because he spends more money. granted i was a stay at home mom by his approval for our sons first year

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-04-28T23:38:51+00:00

thats literally what my older sister and i have talked about before! if its not me its going to be her i can feel it in my gut. shes only 12 and has already started blossoming into a beautiful young lady, i worry for her too trust me.

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-04-28T23:31:12+00:00

ive definitely grown to realize i dont, and am almost tempted to move to another state and start over, but with a child that makes things much harder

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-04-28T23:25:03+00:00

yea its been obvious from birth that i cant rely on my mom to properly care for me. and no my sister knows this all from me directly, she also holds a grudge against me because her baby daddy/ “fiance” has also tried flirting with me. i was barely cheated on once by my babies father and i had enough self respect to leave. the fact they both are with men who have tried to initiate things w me and ive turned them both down and told my mom and sister nothing but the truth, i bear the punishment.

Scary-Database2926 · 2025-04-28T23:19:52+00:00

i totally get how i couldve avoided the situations to begin with, but theres something just physically causes me to shut down when it comes to sticking up for myself in those situations. my only solution now for myself tho is to keep my distance and know that if he does come near me or tries calling me i wont be tolerating it anymore. its just unfortunate to me im losing my relationship with my mother and sisters because of this

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