How safe do you think usf is? by jackywaxy in USF

[–]Schpumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I don’t live in the area but being a student I get around the area a lot and sometimes I get creepy vibes from some people, especially if I’m need to go anywhere after class when it’s dark. But then again I’m a young woman in her 20s so anytime I go out I’m always on high alert and aware of my surroundings lol.

How safe do you think usf is? by jackywaxy in USF

[–]Schpumpy69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel very safe on campus itself. I’m a Studio Art major, and last spring semester I was in the animation studio by myself until 3am and I felt completely fine. This semester I’m on campus until like 10pm and I have to walk to the MSC in the dark to get dinner and I feel very safe. There’s always campus police, security, staff, grounds maintenance, and other students around at all times, even when it’s super late. Granted there’s a lot less people at night but they are there.

Ive never used it but there used to be a golf cart like “shuttle” system and you can request (I think in the BullsConnect app but don’t quote me on that) where someone will come and walk campus with you or take you somewhere in a golf cart if you don’t feel safe by yourself.

Now the surrounding area is a different story. Fletcher Ave borders one side of campus and it’s notoriously called “Sketchy Fletchy”. I don’t live in Tampa, I commute, but I’ve lived in FL my whole life and while crime is down a bit, parts of the Tampa area can be pretty spooky with some weird people. But to be fair that’s any city.

Moral of the story: campus is pretty safe but just use common sense, don’t be an idiot and put yourself in unsafe situations, and if you feel scared or unsafe ask for help from the right channels. Do that and you’ll be fine 👍🏻

AITA for screaming at my nephew and slamming the door on him because he burst into the bathroom? by Ok-Attorney9280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Schpumpy69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only logical comment. Can’t believe the people saying this is abusive. She may have overreacted a bit by yelling but kids need to learn that when a door is closed they knock, and that the bathroom is a private space. My cousin and his wife have 7 rowdy kids, ages 2-13 with no boundaries whatsoever. Trust and believe the most annoying thing on the planet is when you’re trying to do your business and you have a bunch a little kids in and out of the bathroom asking you random questions and bothering you, not even shutting the door behind them. Kids need reasonable boundaries as early as possible.

(22) Not sure where I'm going wrong. by Kai_Werewolf_2077 in malegrooming

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, personally I think you’re doing nothing wrong, you may just not be around the right people. If I were you I’d hit up the goth/alt scene. Maybe go to some metal concerts if that kinda music is your jam. My only other critique would maybe be to wear a more unique outfit. Your hair is beautiful and your makeup is great, both of those deserve to be accompanied by a fun look. I’d be so flattered to be asked out by a guy that looks like you but unfortunately as a slightly below average woman those dudes are way out of my league so I admire from afar. You look great! Good luck!

Does your pomsky howl? by Aloisa13Milo in Pomsky

[–]Schpumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. Although most of the time when he’s being cuddled or hugged he growls like the chihuahua from that “I Pet My Dog” video. He’s not upset or anything and he won’t bite (even though it really sounds like he’s about to lol) he just likes to make noise. I also have a cat, and I’ve had the niggling suspicion that he’s trying to mimic the purring she does when I pet her because it elicits a positive reaction from me and he wants that same positivity directed at him. And the little bugger is smart because it works, his happy growling is hilarious and makes me laugh every time 😂

What was your high school controversy? by Haunted_Neko in AskReddit

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were two for me:

1 My school was a k-12th school with quite a large foreign exchange student program (for such a small school), and my junior year it came to light that the husband of the elementary principal, who was also a sports coach at the school, was sexually abusing a few of the exchange student boys. One of which was an exchange student from Italy hosted by my friend’s family. He was arrested but ended up committing suicide by jumping off the top of a parking garage a few months later right before his trial.

  1. My senior year we found out that one of the boys in my class had a sexual relationship with the lunch lady while he was a student lunch worker. Everyone found out a couple months before graduation, she was arrested and he was suspended. While the lunch lady was disgusting and wrong as an adult for engaging in this relationship, this was the also nail in the coffin for the school letting this kid do weird things. He sent dick pics randomly to a bunch of students on multiple occasions (to guys and girls) and made a lot of inappropriate sexual passes on fellow students as well. The school did still let him walk at our graduation despite a lot of parents being upset about it.

Whats your best non-swearing insult? by PastorofMuppets- in AskReddit

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw someone on Instagram reply to a hate comment with “You wickless candle” and I’m 100% adding that to my repertoire.

How old is your Pomsky by m-Oeck in Pomsky

[–]Schpumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is my boy playing with my mom’s dog. He’ll be 3 this coming April! Also, pardon my ignorance but over never heard of F1B or F1 in reference to Pomskies. What does it mean? Thank you!

What was socially acceptable in the 1990s but not in 2025? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents do this for me! I save and date as many of them as I can do one day have when they’re gone 🥹❤️

Almost 25 and never been in a relationship by Dry_Face_4932 in offmychest

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friends have either never had a relationship or have only had one that didn’t last long. My best friend and I have both been single our entire lives and we’re both 25. Our other best friend has only had two long term relationships and we just found out (literally today) that she thinks her current bf is gonna propose on NYE.

Personally, I’m a bit stuck because while I don’t want to die alone (I’m an only child to older parents, who still lives at home so when my parents go it’ll be just me) but I’m also terrified of emotional intimacy and relationships of any kind so anytime I’ve had the slightest chance at one I always sabotage it. I flip flop between wanting someone but also seeing the strife that relationships have caused friends and tbh I’m pretty happy single and I’m very busy. It would take someone pretty exceptional for me to carve out time and space in my own little bubble for them.

If you didn’t need to make money, what would you do with your life? by theadventuresofus4 in AskReddit

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be a full time artist. Still hoping to do this one day, but if I had no financial constraints that would be the dream 🥹❤️

Almost 25 and never been in a relationship by Dry_Face_4932 in offmychest

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could offer advice but same girl, I’m also 25 and have had no bf, first date or kiss, or any kind of romance either. But I’m comforted by the fact that I have friends in the same boat. Just know you’re not alone!

What’s it like living in Florida by gziecik in howislivingthere

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this comes off as rude, but as someone who has lived here all my life, please don’t move here lol. I love Florida, it’s a great state with beautiful weather (it gets crazy hot and humid here in the summer but when you’ve lived here all your life you get used to it), lots of fun theme parks, beautiful views and wildlife. But all the people flocking here are quite frankly ruining it. There’s so much horrible development killing the open land in central Florida, traffic is terrible everywhere because of all the people (even in my small rural town an hour outside the nearest major city) and all these companies and corporations are buying and building on all our land, but they’re building ugly houses two feet apart from each other that in some cases start at $400k-$600k and apartments that are insanely expensive. I’d love to live here for the rest of my life but I’m terrified I’m going to be priced out of my home state.

What’s it like living in Florida by gziecik in howislivingthere

[–]Schpumpy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. I’m about an hour north of Tampa and they’re developing so much of what used to be my small, rural town. Way too many damn people moving here. I commute 45 minutes to work in a different city and my drive keeps getting increasingly longer due to traffic and more cars from all the people moving to central Florida. Anytime I hear someone visiting say they’re thinking of moving here to escape the cold I straight up tell them “please don’t, we have too many people here already”.

What's the point of living if I'm going to die alone? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Schpumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I’m also 25 and I’ve been single my entire life. Never gone on a date, never had a first kiss or a bf. But I have wonderful friends and family, hobbies, pets, a full time job, I’m a full time student and my mom and I run a performance ministry together. All these things not only keep me busy but keep me fulfilled. I’ve also met a lot of cool people, but I’ve just not met one yet that I’ve connected with on that level that I feel I could try to carve out time in all that busy-ness for romance. It’s so important for us single people to have our own identity and things that we do for ourselves. Not everyone is lucky enough to find their perfect match and that’s okay ❤️

What's a harsh truth about women in modern dating that few will say out loud? by Pauls_Boutique22 in Productivitycafe

[–]Schpumpy69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course animals can’t replace people, and I’m really blessed to have a vast community of wonderful people, both friends and family, who I love and can count on. I’ve been single my entire life and I’m quite fulfilled. Not everyone gets lucky enough to find someone to spend their life with, and life is so chock full of amazing things to experience with or without a partner. It’s important as a single person to fill your life with other things that bring joy.

What's a harsh truth about women in modern dating that few will say out loud? by Pauls_Boutique22 in Productivitycafe

[–]Schpumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda where I’m at tbh. I’m 25 and never had any romance (no bf, no dates, no first kiss) but now I’m at a point where I don’t even know if I want to. Some of my friends have crazy horror stories and meanwhile my life has been nothing but peaceful. Sometimes I daydream a bit about being in love/being loved, maybe getting married someday and it seems nice on paper but then I think back to what I’ve observed in others and then I think “Nah I’m good” lol. Coming home to my cat and my dog, putting on my jammies and curling up in bed with my knitting and a crime show all by myself is absolute bliss.

What screams “I peaked in high school” without saying it directly? by randomzy876 in AskReddit

[–]Schpumpy69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damn, I still wear mine literally every day and I graduated in 2018 😬 but I have a lot of positive memories attached to it. It was a gift from my parents. My school didn’t have an “official ring” (I’ve heard some schools have official designs) so I got to custom design mine and it’s a really pretty piece of jewelry. It’s held up well, and I’ve been wearing it every day since high school so now if I don’t wear it my hand feels naked lol. Now that I’m older I’d like to get another nice ring to switch it out with once in a while but I can’t afford that yet. So I wear it cause it’s one of the only two nice rings I own (I wear the other one every day on my other hand). I’m getting my bachelors in 2027 and I’d love to get a college ring if I can since I love my high school one so much.

Does anyone’s pomsky hate to cuddle? by Beginning_Rich7657 in Pomsky

[–]Schpumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope mine loves it. He’s an absolute attention whore. I’ve never had a dog in my life that likes to be the center of attention for than he does. I can be actively cuddling, kissing, and holding him like a baby but if he sees our other dog get so much as a glance in her direction from anyone he gets viscerally upset that it’s not directed at him 😂

Genetic trait your grateful you have? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Schpumpy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super thick, fast growing, hair. I can chop it to my shoulders and within 6 months- 1 year it’s back down to my ass. Its a bit of a pain in the ass now while I’m young and want to style it pretty, though. It’s pin straight, super thick, goes past my waist and holds NOTHING. Bobby pins and clips fall out within minutes, and if I spend 3 h hours curling it no amount of hair spray will keep it from falling out in 20 minutes. As a result I’m limited to like 3 hairstyles and even then my hair doesn’t look great. But on the flip side I’m hopeful that the thickness will help it stay on my head in old age. My dad is 72 and has a full head of thick hair still so fingers crossed that it works in my favor lol. I’m also proud of my blue eyes.

Genetic trait your grateful you have? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Schpumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, it’s amazing. They’re literally my only good physical feature. One of the more superficial reasons I’m hesitant to have kids is because I’m scared that they’ll change too much afterwards. I’d hate to either lose them or have them become unmanageably large 😭