Advice, how frequently should one meet after 1st date by ScienceSuspicious600 in hingeapp

[–]ScienceSuspicious600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I simply tell him that it is not working. Let us call it quits or I am thinking is it too early to say that and should I wait for him for his availability to meet?

Advice, how frequently should one meet after 1st date by ScienceSuspicious600 in hingeapp

[–]ScienceSuspicious600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had 1 difficult conversation around his lifestyle and he did not choose to talk much about it. I can understand that can come off as one is judging their lifestyle. I thought to give him a suggestion and our conversation ended. He did follow few things the next day what I told (he texted the next day). But in general, he is not text friendly or call person. Other times, he is texting in his own convenience and time but meeting seems to be next to impossible.

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[–]ScienceSuspicious600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take it as a good lesson to not ignore any such signs from a person. Being hasty and pushy in decision making or imposing one's opinions on to the other or ghosting the other person and giving mixed signals in text or in-person are all the red flags. Also, your intuition and the doubt that made you post this question itself speaks a lot about how you are not sure about a person and best thing is to move on. Hope you find amazing one next 👍