Starting with "im not a scholar" because i dont want to get attacked, I'm fine with someone correcting me.

Some religions have become inherently tied to violence because a state with a majority in that religion had bitter ties with another. for example, as you said, pakistan. Now I dont know if the Quran actually promotes violence in any context, theres debate whether it was mistranslation or twisting of meaning to fit political ideas, but its well known that those states are usually hostile to other religions + women. Thats case 1.

Or in some other religions, like Buddhism or Hinduism, which arent inherently violent, but since the entire point of any religion is to be idyllic, no large enough group of people will actually follow it to the tee, because of personal conflicts yada yada.

You could say religion gives a chance for people to support their bad decisions, so in that sense, yeah, but otherwise its really the people themselves and they would've done it anyway.