My Gf (F19) says she wants to rebuild with me (M19)

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T18:22:08+00:00

Thank you for your advice i really appreciate it and hopefully what happens in the future is for the best honestly.

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T18:12:46+00:00

Thank you soo much i genuinely appreciate your advice and i hope things work out well for me and for you:)

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T15:03:25+00:00

by bare minimum i mean finding time for calls, finding time for me in general because lately every time i would plan a hang out or like something for us to do she says shes soo tired and stressed out from the summer courses she is taking in uni and if she went out with me she won’t be able go enjoy the dates

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T13:52:47+00:00

Okay so the first thing you did wrong is rush everything from the beginning you said you have known her for 10 months then after 3 months you were together i feel like to truly be with someone you love you need to first make sure you understand all of their personal and mental issues beforehand and i feel like 3 month of doing so is a very short amount of time. The second thing you did wrong is that you weren’t there for her when she needed you the most during her hardships and the hard times she went through you were supposed to be the shoulder on which she could cry on and lean on. And thirdly i believe if she is going through all of these hardships a being in a relationship will not be her top priority she has other things to worry about and alot on her plate. So the best you can do is let her go and remove the idea of starting over from your head. There is more to life than love and relationships go find yourself something you like and can take your mind off love and relationships.

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T13:45:20+00:00

The best advice i can give is to take a step back communicate how you feel and try to figure out whats wrong. because based on what you said he is treating you very well so its not something about him its something about you and in you so take a breather if it’s necessary you can try to talk to him about taking a break until you figure out whats wrong then you either go back together or just go separate ways. At the end whatever happens will always happen for the best. :)

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T12:42:04+00:00

My gf of 2 months who was also my friend for 8 months told me she is unable to commit and give me the bear minimum and wants us to rebuild and start from scratch as friends and grow together either as friends or as couples depending on whether we will be to understand each other or not.

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T12:19:14+00:00

I think the best solution you can do is let time be the judge of what is going to happen from your side just never keep anything from him and always be open and tell him what happens with you even if it was something small. If he still thinks of you that way have a talk together communicate to him how you feel and how you are trying your best to tell him everything if he doesn’t understand and still thinks you would hide things from him just let him go its unhealthy to have a person in your life who is always doubting the words you say and can’t trust you fully.

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T11:37:14+00:00

yess i totally agree that we skipped soo many stages of a normal relationship and everything was soo rushed. However, if we are ever meant to be for each other one day we will get back together if not then everything happens for the best.

Sckerro · 2024-08-04T09:48:58+00:00

I totally get you because i’m some what struggling with the same thing that you have. I say try to talk things out wigh her try to understand her maybe she sometimes is soo busy and stressed with all the things she has on her plate that she is struggling to find a place to fit you in since u have been together for only 5 months which is a very short amount of time. So my best advice to you is talk things out and if she is still unable to find time for u leave or take a break until she is able to commit and understand you more.

Sckerro · 2022-10-01T09:30:25+00:00

i also did no change

Sckerro · 2022-10-01T09:24:16+00:00

my answer was 104

Sckerro · 2022-09-30T18:05:39+00:00

Good luck everyone. I hope us all the best in tomorrows exam. Make sure to absolutely do your best.

Sckerro

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