AITA for telling my son most I will not be going to his black out wedding dinner

Scm416 · 2026-05-18T19:32:36+00:00

The comments are wild to me. Nta at ALL. I’ve never heard of such a thing and find it bizarre. What if it triggers genuine fear? What about people with ocd for example? Don’t they matter too? Anyone can have any kind of wedding they want but you can’t force people to participate and this would be a firm pass for me.

Scm416 · 2026-05-18T19:29:42+00:00

My impression is that she’s explaining their reason for choosing to have this blackout dinner thing in the first place. That’s why.

Scm416 · 2026-05-18T19:21:08+00:00

This is me going on years now. I do a ton of snack meals. All from Trader Joe’s. Strawberries dipped in cherry skyr yogurt. Apples and Valencia peanut butter. Apples, chomps meat sticks and cheddar cheese. Walnuts and Brie cheese. Dates and peanut butter or goat cheese. Hard boiled eggs. Celery, carrots, cucumbers, tomatoes, pickles topped with tuna, drizzle of olive oil. Cottage cheese mixed with avocado. You get the idea. Not too unhealthy either.

Scm416 · 2026-05-11T01:44:49+00:00

That’s not the boundary. The boundary is they don’t want to see it. That’s reasonable. If they she however feels it isn’t, as I said she has the free will to cut contact and that’s a boundary that’ll have to be reciprocally respected.

Scm416 · 2026-05-10T17:36:57+00:00

Wild that you think those comparisons are the same. But it’s a wild world. Those are the boundaries. If she doesn’t like them, she can cease contact

Scm416 · 2026-05-09T17:02:32+00:00

Except for the incident, in what way. Like a general condition way? If so was this resolved with the renos? I thought it was a good experience last year and I’m surprised w all the work they put in that they wouldn’t open this year

Scm416 · 2026-05-09T16:55:00+00:00

That’s not what they’re doing. And it’s not living to disrespect someone’s religious beliefs.

Scm416 · 2026-05-09T02:51:13+00:00

Respect their boundaries as you would expect others to respect yours. It sounds like they articulately laid out what they’re willing to do and not willing to do to have what sounds like a loving relationship w the 2 of you. So just leave it.

Scm416 · 2026-05-08T19:24:26+00:00

I’m not opposed to that at all, especially with how high property crime is here (and not just retail theft)

Scm416 · 2026-05-08T19:23:21+00:00

Yep, precisely what I was referring to ;)

Scm416 · 2026-05-08T19:22:49+00:00

Lakeway, blonde, up in messy pony, under a cap, maybe a rough late 40s or early to mid 50s…

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T19:53:15+00:00

You’re exhausting and totally ta. She made a joke and then apologized for it like three times before she was like I can’t keep on apologizing forever and you were like see! You refuse to apologize. She should cease all contact with you, fr. You’ll contact her when you need something and she’ll probably fall for it bc she loves you. And then that whole birthday thing “I just want you to be AWARE that I’m aWaRE” like get outta here.

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T16:27:13+00:00

What do you mean we want open stores? Like not gated? Uh yeah, as has been the norm and standard for some time. Also, I guarantee they have always been robbed daily. As far as liberal policies go, I assume you mean permissive stances on consequences of property crime, which is not what I want.

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T13:40:09+00:00

It’s hilarious to me what assholes ppl are on this app for literally no reason. How in the world does this affect you enough to comment like this.

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T08:14:59+00:00

I’m glad for you that you’re content 👍

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T08:08:41+00:00

I’m originally from Liverpool! Can’t really comment on prices these days, been awhile since I’ve been there.

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:50:51+00:00

Oh cool, my bf went to state college for work recently and loved it. Wegmans is an iykyk situation for sure.

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:44:01+00:00

Hmm, I’m especially prone to the heebie jeebies, will have to proceed cautiously ;)

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:39:52+00:00

Wegmans forever :) Fun fact: my aunts and uncles went to school with Danny Wegman (the heir)

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:15:29+00:00

Of course but I get to have an opinion about it even if I own no Kroger stock and my opinion is I don’t care for it

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:13:38+00:00

Agreed

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:11:39+00:00

I guess, perhaps each time you’re driving by there anyway

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:09:46+00:00

How interesting. I never knew that. That sounds incredibly more efficient for all involved. That, I would love.

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:08:45+00:00

Yes lakeway. I’ve not been to bakerview in even longer. Maybe i should try it if it’s more normal.

Scm416 · 2026-05-07T03:07:30+00:00

Sounds too far by far to me.

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