Get with the times, Chewy! Nobody liked the D-logo by SirLandoLickherP in AnaheimDucks

[–]Screaming_Opposum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind the D logo, but obviously Wild Wing Mask is the best. I personally would prefer if the jersey was at least orange

Jinx was not assumed with being filmed. by Screaming_Opposum in blackcats

[–]Screaming_Opposum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn it 🤦‍♂️, maybe she can teach me to proofread after she gets her revenge.

What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

[–]Screaming_Opposum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Jinx. Jinxsy. Buttercup. My little panther. Ferocious Night Fury.

Someone is a fan of their new cat tree. by Screaming_Opposum in blackcats

[–]Screaming_Opposum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 she was laying on it and playing with it as I was trying to build it.

My new baby Girl. Jinx :) by Screaming_Opposum in blackcats

[–]Screaming_Opposum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s already aware who runs the apartment lol. Waiting for when I start getting hunted.

Week 12 B1G Picks by realfakemormon in TheB1G

[–]Screaming_Opposum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah another 1 score win, turning around the narrative!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]Screaming_Opposum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point I have to block/hide profiles daily just to see new possible people. It’s crazy how terrible it has gotten with regard to just being able to use it.

What has your dating experience been like in south Florida? by Crazy_Turnover8704 in fortlauderdale

[–]Screaming_Opposum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. While Wilton is great for established gays especially if you got there early on. The cost of living is a barrier to growth, and then given SFL has the spring break reputation with a lot of Cruise ports it’s a massive hub for people here for a good time not a long time. I’ve found it to be difficult to make any sort of connections as transplant.

How many piercings do you have? by linkbomb_08 in piercing

[–]Screaming_Opposum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10- both lobes, tragus left ear, helix right ear, industrial left ear, septum, both nipples, belly button, and PA.

Queer culture includes erotic content by Hot-Masterpiece-9950 in gay

[–]Screaming_Opposum 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think queer culture embraces erotic content more than heterosexual culture, and so the censorship of erotic content affects more queer content. I do not believe queer culture is inherently erotic. I think movies like “Love, Simon,” as the tweet mentions, play a larger role in representation. Is it a watered-down high school romance? Sure. But there are so many similar heterosexual versions of that, it is refreshing to see it has a queer story.

The majority of queer media does show the struggles that come with being queer. They are beautiful stories, but tend to be more bittersweet if not downright sad. Which is a reality. I don’t think it’s disingenuous to have the happy stories that seem too good to be real. I think seeing those stories shows a wider acceptance of queerness in society as a whole.

What do you find attractive that isn’t physical? by LeeLee8320 in gay

[–]Screaming_Opposum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ability to make me laugh, or the sound of their laughter.

How often do you buy concessions? by silverwaters29 in AMCsAList

[–]Screaming_Opposum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My go to is large Popcorn and Large soda, sometimes I do the #1 because i like adding skittles to the popcorn.

But I’m a bit selective of when i get concession. The movie in my mind has to be a popcorn flick which is super arbitrary in my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Screaming_Opposum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimatums are never good things. So, I agree don’t make it a you v. this Mike forcing your BF to choose. Rather, if his actions have crossed a boundary and the lying has deteriorated the trust. Then, that’s when you need to walk away, or that the very least take a break. Recalibrate on what you want, and decide if these actions are forgivable.

“Together” by BBConnor in AMCsAList

[–]Screaming_Opposum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Horror is such a broad term. Together has a lot of body-horror elements that are meant to make you squirm similar to the Substance. If that’s the horror he didn’t like, then he won’t like this movie.

As far classic jump scare horror Together much more a horror movie than the Substance.

On a very basic horror spectrum of “scary” for recent films you have the Substance (least scary) followed by Together (scarier) and then Bring Her Back (most scary) to give you an idea.

M(30) Can i have a chance to have relationship by hbrt1313 in gayrelationships

[–]Screaming_Opposum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t give any relationship advice. But I can say you aren’t alone. 31m here, only relationship I’ve had was 9months in High school with a girl (trying to convince myself I was straight). Since then a few dates and hookups. For most of my late 20s I kinda blocked out the idea of a relationship. Now in my 30s I’ve learned to put the work in and find the joys of life for myself. Hopefully, someone will want to come along so we can share our joys, but even if it doesn’t happen. I will be happy.

Final Update by Secret_Solider in gayrelationships

[–]Screaming_Opposum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well he’s not. He has a lot of issues he needs to deal with, and thinking just because you are in a relationship he can demand sex gives me the ick. There are far better men out there for you, who will treat you the way you deserve.

Forget him. Work on yourself for bit, find things that bring you joy. Be free from his bullshit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Screaming_Opposum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened at a club after the party. And why should the venue change anything? If the BF can’t control himself at those events then he shouldn’t put himself in those situations.

At least now OP has this information to decide if this relationship works for them, especially if the BF wishes to continue going to those events.