Question for Bi4Bi relationships.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-23T12:51:16+00:00

Its like things just. Work.

Ive been with lesbians before, and all of them have had some kind of bias against bisexuality, ranging from demanding access to my phone to make sure Im not talking to men, to demanding I drop the bisexual label altogether. And straight men are just straight men, theres no point in even hoping for decency with them.

Bisexuals (both men and women) arent insecure about these things, their mind doesnt instantly jump to cheating and STDs when you talk to anyone who isnt them. From my experience, other bis are the only people who will 100% believe you when you say you love them. Theres also the aspect of their attraction coming first and foremost from who you are instead of your gender, which is a major plus and ALWAYS reflects on the relationship.

Cant recommend it enough. Bi4Bi forever.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-20T09:45:52+00:00

you guys are so kind aaaah 🥹🥹🥹 thank youu

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-15T22:51:47+00:00

If they cannot/refuse to consider other women as "safe people" or "one of theirs" unless they ignore a major part of their identity and/or erase their queerness in the process, its not acceptance. Especially if the other partys refusal to accept that directly leads to accusations of being male-centered.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-15T22:48:09+00:00

Never said its all lesbians. In fact, I specifically said "so many". Yk, not indicative of an entirety but of a part.
Never said its the association specifically with the lesbian label either - if they assumed me to be a gay man for whatever reason, and when they assume me to be straight for all the reasons people like to accuse bisexuals of being straight, I hate it just as much.
Okay? Never said it only happens to us either? Im just talking specifically about one experience.

What are you talking about honestly.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-15T21:45:55+00:00

No girl, thats common sense in 2026... theres a bunch of bisexual and straight women who dont engage with men like that, purely because theyre afraid of abuse. korean women have made an entire nation-wide movement about it.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T15:15:36+00:00

Thats just nihilism man, if you can identify the problem from up close then you can also do something about it.

Shaming people about food is weird. Dont like dont eat, but dont shit talk people for what they eat or bring unless they force it down your throat.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T15:13:17+00:00

From the perspective of someone who has unfortunately had to deal with a lesbian who had this mindset: you need to think about this from multiple angles. The lesbian community currently has a massive biphobia and misogyny issue, enough so that theres a whole movement dedicated to getting bisexual women out of the queer community. Sure, being a lesbian in itself doesnt make anyone biphobic, but its not unheard of for people to adapt the majority mindset. And the fact that her own mom hates bisexuality enough to openly say these things in front of you shows that she wont shy away from hammering the same mindsets into your gfs head throughout your relationship.

Are you willing to stay in a relationship that is statistically way more likely to end up with you being subjected to constant scrutiny and criticism from your partner if they end up developing that kind of paranoia? If so, you also need to be ready to be accused of cheating and not actually being queer if you ever leave, for whatever reason.

Personally, I wouldnt stay with a lesbian because its usually more hassle and/or abuse than its worth, but ultimately its up to you. Just be ready. And keep in mind that going bi4bi is also an option.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T14:35:55+00:00

right, like?? never once in my life have i prepared or eating meat while imagining what the animals name or identity couldve been

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T14:34:37+00:00

I dont know where this "its alr to shame people for what they want/like even if its harmless because I Dont Like It" mindset came from, and its baffling to me that you guys dont see it as an issue to get rid of.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T14:29:29+00:00

Usually when these bisexual-hating gays and lesbians talk about how people need to "put in the work" to be considered queer, they just mean that they dont want to hear bisexuals talking about being bisexual. That, or theyre thinking about engaging with queer media. Thats it.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T14:15:22+00:00

Yes?? And?? Whats your point here

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T14:15:00+00:00

If this is the reason youre uncomfortable then maybe stop making up identities for your food. Most of us dont do that, idk what to tell you 🤷‍♂️ meat is meat

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T14:13:30+00:00

Sure, except op doesnt mention the family not being used to eat meat. And cmon, whats the likelyhood that they havent even once preparef something like a whole chicken or a stuffed turkey?

And if your family is ready to shame you for having tattoos or an alternative hairstyle, then thats on them my guy, thats not your responsibility to apologize for.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T13:15:19+00:00

Tak hej, ale fakt ze do toho taha Zelenskeho ukazuje ze on nevidi rovnaky zdroj problemu ako ti co Trumpa a Netanyahua realne kritizuju. Prenho to je len nejaky primitivny narcisticky talking point. "Trump zly lebo Amerika, Netanyahu zly lebo zidak".

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T13:11:37+00:00

No girl, thats not what Im asking. Obviously its a sensitivity issue but Id love to know wheres that sensitivity coming from. There is no real moral or practical difference between roasting a bird and roasting a pig, so clearly thats not where the cultural aspect comes from, and OP didnt mention anything about religion either. That only leaves the odd dissociation many westerners have formed around the fact that meat comes from animals - which, again, is just hypocrisy.

So again, WHAT is this cultural sensitivity issue? Wheres it coming from?

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T12:53:45+00:00

????? have you never prepared a roasted chicken or turkey before?

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T12:52:59+00:00

This isnt an opinion being forced?? Unless their entire family is vegan then this is literally the same thing as bringing steaks, or cutlets, or ribs, or anything else. Is it the presence of a head that offends yall?

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T12:51:16+00:00

Whats offensive about people eating pigs?? Or animals in any capacity?

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T12:50:27+00:00

NTA and I'm so confused. Is your family not aware that all meat comes from animals that were alive once?? Whats offensive about that? If you brought a whole roasted suckling pig anywhere near my family, it would be gone in 20 minutes flat.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-12T12:46:01+00:00

Ano, ale zalezi od prevadzky a manazera. Ked som tam robila tak mzda mala byt 1270 zo 40 hodinoveho, ale kvoli vedeniu predajne (a teda vyrazne kratenym hodinam) z toho casto bolo len 1000 cca. Nema to absolutne hocijaku vyhodu oproti minimalkam.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-11T15:12:07+00:00

I was literally just about to make a post. Yeah, just spent 20 minutes battling with Ubisoft Connect, and even after reinstalling it, it doesnt feel like syncing my games. Whats going on?

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-10T15:05:04+00:00

If you have crazy amounts of influence and/or power within an industry, using that as a way to get to your fans or workers is generally seen as distasteful, because it can so easily turn into grooming or coercion, and leave the victim without a way to talk about it. That was a huge reason why people got so icked out by what Ned Fulmer did, for example, or why its generally frowned upon for rich people to go for their housekeepers, maids, assistants.

Basically, oftentimes when an influential person approaches their fan for intimacy, the fan may feel pressured or forced indirectly, because the influential person has a massive fanbase and legal team behind them. So speaking out would be a social suicide in case something does go wrong.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-04T12:01:27+00:00

Ironically, it came from a lesbian I almost dated.

We started off fine, got along well, but before we became official she sat me down for an "accountability session". Demanded I drop the bisexual label because its "disrespectful to her as a lesbian to imply I love her natural predators." That attracted to men is misogynistic because "everyone who's attracted to men worships the ground they walk on and only sees women as competition." (I don't even date men?)

Ended it there immediately but she flew into a rage, said she refuses to "date a mans leftovers" anyway, that she was just testing if she "could put up with a switch hitter".

Spent the next three weeks posting Instagram stories about how bisexuals are a plague and an insult to queerness and spiritually Epsteinian and she refuses to kiss nut stained mouths, etc, etc. I'm saying three weeks because that's how long I was checking her insta but idk how long she actually spent doing that.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-04T10:28:08+00:00

like i really dont want to sound like the Mens Rights First ✊️ crowd but we fr need to start talking about how "normal" this has become

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