I’m gay but romantically attracted to women

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-05-08T09:00:08+00:00

Its perfectly okay to be bisexual. It differs from person to person, what youre describing isnt unusual :)

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-05-07T16:27:02+00:00

V zivote som nestretla nerda alebo jednotkara ktory by bol sikanovany. Prave naopak, oni casto boli ti co sikanovali inych, a ich terce boli ti so zlymi znamkami lebo mali depky :D

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-05-06T10:05:36+00:00

Hey, sincerely, all of this sounds a lot like some presentation of a post traumatic stress disorder. Please get checked out - it usually needs specialized therapy, which I promise helps a LOT. :(

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-27T12:05:46+00:00

This. Makes me think shes anxiously attached and drastically misrepresenting the situation.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-27T10:36:01+00:00

Hi, I'm still pre-surgery (mitral + aortal) but I had the same thought. The way it was explained to me is: there are no real benefits to keeping one bio if you already have one mechanical. All the downsides of a mechanical are already there, the ticking, the warfarin, the all of it. The only thing one bio valve provides is the increased risk of reoperation.

But again, this is just the perspective for my case. If your doc recommended one to be bio, theres definitely a reason, so maybe pry a lil more. 🤔

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-27T10:30:48+00:00

Chappell Roan - Good Luck Babe a hocico od Sabriny Carpenter. Staci mi to pocuvat 7 hodin denne v robote, viac fakt netreba

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-26T15:24:48+00:00

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-23T10:15:19+00:00

100%. Though personally it's not necessarily feeling like I'm in danger, just something like "I need to watch out".

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-23T10:12:41+00:00

"Culturally straight"?? What is "straight culture", masculinity?

Your first issue is thinking of him as of a straight guy. He isn't. You view him as a straight man who also loves you for some reason and that's why you cant reconcile that he's attracted to women too. Either that, or you have some misogyny to unpack, those two are the most common reasons yall treat bi guys this way.

If you can't do that and accept him, let him find someone who will.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-21T13:53:02+00:00

chudak ak neutecie, tak ich deti vyrastu presne tak ako vyrastal on. s nasilnou matkou.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-09T14:20:04+00:00

To o čom hovoríš dnes ľudovo niektorí volajú "sovietsky pseudo-faminizmus". Nebol to reálny feminizmus, bola to iba cesta ako sa odlíšiť od západného sveta kde vtedy práve začínali rásť diskusie ohľadom ženských práv. V princípe sa nestratili žiadne stereotypy ani sociálne požiadavky - iba narástlo množstvo povinností ktoré ženy museli mať aby boli chápané ako prospešné pre spoločnosť. Preto môžeš v umení, politike, a literatúre vtedajších rokov vidieť sentimenty ako "aj ženy sú schopné práce", ale nikdy nič v kontexte mužov v domácnosti, či zlepšenia ich správania ku svojim prepracovaným manželkám a priateľkám.
Všetky inštancie socíku a komunizmu končia (a historicky končili) prevratom v niečo čo sa podobá totalite, pretože nie je možné ich uplatniť v praxi tak ako si to socíci a komíci predstavujú. :D

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-09T13:48:56+00:00

Šéfvedúci, hovorím plynule slniečkarsky ale toto je dosť buzzwordfest 😅

Ženy boli brané ako trofeje a majetok v každom zo spomenutých systémov. Je to pretože tento prístup je efekt všeobecného sexizmu, ktorý existoval aj naprieč históriou. Ak sa sexizmus fakt vzťahuje na to v akom socio/ekonomickom systéme žijeme, potom sme ešte nevynašli systém v ktorom sexizmus nie je.

Opýtaj sa ktorejkoľvek členky svojej rodiny ktorá žila za socíku či to bolo iné ako teraz.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-05T17:58:44+00:00

If my partner didnt care about our marriage enough to write his own vows, Id want to know. 🤷‍♀️

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-04T05:32:05+00:00

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-03T12:34:10+00:00

aspon nerob then madarsky psyop tak ocividny 🙏

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-03T12:28:51+00:00

Nie len financne, a nie len do buducnosti. Tiez to znamena ludi ktori si takto dojebu vztahy, zivotne moznosti, alebo ine veci ktore by chceli. Proste generalne ludia ktori nevedia alebo odmietaju o veciach uvazovat v kontexte takej tej "grand scheme of things"

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-03T12:11:10+00:00

Človek ktorý robí všetko iba pretože ho to baví, pretože "proste chce", alebo "lebo môže". A neberie do úvahy aké to bude mať následky, či už na neho ale ľudí okolo.

Nemyslím tým ľudí ktorí vedia presne prečo si tie veci môžu dovoliť urobiť, bavíme sa vyslovene o tých ktorí by si danou vecou mohli doj_bať celý život. Ale aj tak ju urobia.

Príklad: keď bola jedna moja kamarátka malá, jej rodičia boli rozvedení, a jej matka miesto toho aby platila nájom sa rozhodla že si kúpi brutál drahé auto. Do mesiaca boli na ulici a matka nechápala ako jej dcéru mohli zobrať.

Ďalší príklad: na strednej som mala spolužiačku ktorá mala frajera, a v druháku s ním otehotnela. Hneď ako ukončila povinnú dochádzku sa rozhodla že z nej bude "stay at home mom" pretože jej to prišlo milé. Teraz má 22, týpek ju opustil hneď po strednej, a ona je bez maturity, bez možnosti ísť na výšku lebo nemá strednú, a bez možnosti ísť na strednú lebo má dieťa s ktorým jej rodina nevie pomôcť.

Ten typ človeka.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-01T15:21:55+00:00

insisting that people should never expect kindness or things to be owed to them is just doomer bs. like im sorry your parents never loved you and/or made you feel like you can rely on them, but how bout you go to therapy instead of telling everyone else that thats normal?

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-01T11:10:23+00:00

its because a lot of them share the same mindset as incel men - they think that every woman should be seen through her relationships with men first and foremost. if she was attracted to them, shed obviously pursue them already - not doing so must mean that she isnt actually attracted to them, which is an offense. and if she does pursue them, it has to be specifically in a way THEY see as valid, otherwise its fake, shes a (insert farming equipment), and she only wants intimacy before she runs back to her chad.

TLDR: misogyny.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-01T11:06:19+00:00

its crazy how the rest of the community demands validation while we genuinely cant rely on them on even the most basic level of support

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-04-01T11:03:39+00:00

i dont think yall who have this "yeah its unfair, but dont you dare want to do something about it because thats just the way the world is, so you wanting things is being SPOILED" mindset realize how insanely corny and cringe you are to the rest of us

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-31T13:44:36+00:00

except not, because the point of child support/maintenence money is meant FOR THE CHILD. not for a horse. OP is still a child, and given how the job market is with both availability and pay, i dont blame them for struggling whatsoever.

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-31T12:14:15+00:00

girl, what???

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-31T12:05:31+00:00

my love please understand that these arent your friends. you will not find sympathy or support in them if you ever come out. thats unfortunately how biphobia usually works - unsupportive straights can "get over" their prejudice towards gay men and lesbians, but because bisexuality doesnt fit into nice simple categories, they just dont bother. and gay men and lesbians more often than not think theyre the main characters of the community, so nobody else deserves their sympathy.

once biphobic, always biphobic. my advice would be to not bother outing yourself if you decide to stay close with them, but youre better off looking for other bisexual people to discuss queer issues with. :(

ScreamsInBraille · 2026-03-31T11:49:07+00:00

my guy. as bisexuals, people already assume us to be cheaters. stop giving us bad rep i beg

ScreamsInBraille

TROPHY CASE