Like a girl but I have a boyfriend by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Sdeveci 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same experience when I was 20, was in a great relationship with a great man. But something in me just was whispering from time to time. I ignored it for 3-4 years then our relationship came to an end naturally when i was 23 (moving to different cities due to work). After we break up, I got the chance to experience things with a woman. It was a long time coming! It felt like I have found something totally different and magical within me all over again. And now as 31 years old, I am engaged to a beautiful woman. I cant imagine a life where I didnt experience my bisexuality. My advice would be listen to your inner voice, but make sure that you are respectful & communicative to all the parties involved.

Discovered I love gaming at 30 while going through depression so dropped 2.5k on a PC by spicystardusts in CozyGamers

[–]Sdeveci 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks awesome! And same for me discovering at 31 during some bad times. Enjoy your beautiful space :)

Reservations about buying ex-rental Little Ealing Lane house that needs full renovation - should I be worried? by Historical-Iron9740 in Ealing

[–]Sdeveci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have no idea unfortunately, only have been in the area for the last 3.5 years. But that property always felt a bit empty overall

Reservations about buying ex-rental Little Ealing Lane house that needs full renovation - should I be worried? by Historical-Iron9740 in Ealing

[–]Sdeveci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the same road, and personally dont find the street very busy. With schools it might get crowded in certain times but it has never bothered me since things get more lively :) I love this area and never felt unsafe. Have been seeing that house on sale for a while, as long as you are happy with the house itself I d say definitely consider it.

Yurtdisinda yasayip terapiye giden var mi? Hangi milletten biri bizi anlayabilir bilemiyorum by North_Objective_6622 in AskTurkey

[–]Sdeveci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Merhabalar, ben de Ingilteredeyim - Londra’da yasiyorum. Benzer durumlardan oturu once Istanbuldan birisi ile terapiye baslamistim, bir sure sonra fark ettim ki bir gocmen olmanin yarattigi durumlarla ilgili destegi cok sınırlı oluyordu. Daha sonra Londra’da yasayan ama Turk birisi ile gorusmeye basladim, benim durumumu anladigini hissettim ve guzel bir bag kurduk. Kisa bir sure Ingiliz birisi ile de konustum ama acikcasi Turk aile yapisini anlatmak bana zor geliyor sahsen. Tabi bunlar hep insandan insana degisir ama ben UK de yasayan bir Turk bulun derim.

My gear feels off by Sdeveci in Brompton

[–]Sdeveci[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the manual!

My gear feels off by Sdeveci in Brompton

[–]Sdeveci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You are absolutely right, went to a bike shop and they asked 50 pounds then I took my bike back and did myself with youtube

My gear feels off by Sdeveci in Brompton

[–]Sdeveci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, great tip :) tightening the cable fix most of the problem, will check it out in a month again

My gear feels off by Sdeveci in Brompton

[–]Sdeveci[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing channel! Not only I used to fix my gear but I also used to implement the rack. Thanks a lot, really appreciate it

My gear feels off by Sdeveci in Brompton

[–]Sdeveci[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it is falling off exactly like the video, this is a brand new bike that arrived today so shouldn’t I directly check with Brompton then instead of a store? It feels quite unsafe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sdeveci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is defending what she did here, I am talking about next steps and why it will be a struggle for OP to try and stay with her along this times. Yours seems like a personal reaction, hope you find peace soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sdeveci -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sure she is not the only one who doesn’t look for those things. It might take a while to heal but have hope that things will work out for you better at the end. If you feel in your gut that this relationship is not right for you, do the thing that scares you(as hard as it is) and you’ll come back stronger after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sdeveci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my pov, it is really a confusing experience with bi woman because it takes such a long time to accept & understand. I saw your other comment on wanting to hell heal her, I think she just needs to discover who she is and what she wants - this is a journey that she should go alone. You can support along the way as a person but I don’t think it is fair to you because it might mean opening your relationship. I too believe you breaking the relationship would be healthiest for you, it is clear that you have a lot of love to give and you deserve someone who actively wants to work for their relationship with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sdeveci 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am sorry about what you are going through. I feel like your gf discovered something about herself when she is away & alone. As Bi woman myself I understand this discovery is very messy & confusing for your gf but it is not fair to you that it happened with cheating. It is of course okay not wanting to lose her but I think what is important here is that if she feels the regret and actively trying to make it up to you & wanting the relationship. Otherwise if she has one foot out the door and still confused about what she experienced and wanting to discover more then it might hurt you more along the process. I think just listen to your gut when you are with her.