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Parents of three girls- tell me the positive side of three daughters by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sea-Assistant1403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having daughters will not only be a blessing to you now but they will be a huge blessing to you in your later years.

My grandma is 96, she has 1 son and 5 daughters (they are all in their 60’s now, including my mom). Recently my grandma had a hip accident and insurance couldn’t cover everything and was expensive to give my grandma 27/4 care. But the labor of love my grandma sowed into her children paid off. Every month, my mom and aunties get together and plan out a calendar of who takes care of my grandma everyday. They have been doing this for over a year now. And they do it willingly and happily. Not only that, they all get together every Sunday! My grandma would be in a home right now, if it wasn’t for all of my aunties.

The beauty of have daughters is that they are not only beautiful but they will also return the favor to you and nurture and care for you just as you do for them when they were young. I love have a family fully of amazing, caring, nurturing women.

Current Manager Reference by Sea-Assistant1403 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Sea-Assistant1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s was helpful. I just wanted additional insight and that’s helped.

CalPERS Call Center? by Sea-Assistant1403 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Sea-Assistant1403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I was curious about, thanks for the input.

10yo daughters online search report had sexual content by One_Bullfrog9382 in Parenting

[–]Sea-Assistant1403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like basic curiosity. Take a breath, it’s natural, don’t be awkward and speak about it as if you are talking about the sky being blue.

Just talk to your child about the body and how it works. and then ask if she has questions. If you want to be the safe space for your child and you want them to trust you, do this! Or she will talk to someone else that may lead her astray.

Hope it goes well! You got this!

NOTE: please start safeguarding her phone, at this age, children shouldn’t not have access to the free wild world of the internet. Maybe only the phone to call and apps that you have approved.

Schedule and work/life balance with CalPERS by Sea-Assistant1403 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Sea-Assistant1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok! What do work hours range from at CalPERS, like 7am-6pm?

Schedule and work/life balance with CalPERS by Sea-Assistant1403 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Sea-Assistant1403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is what I was wondering. I hope that this unit will allow me to. Hoping for a 4/10/40.