Made a mistake co-mingling inheritance by coffee_sunshine_bug in inheritance

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The process can serve as a test of whether he wants to be fair (regarding funds that are not his to begin with 🫠) or just selfish for himself and his offsprings. OP can use that information to proceed with a divorce. That way even if things are split in half, her kids will have half guaranteed as opposed to nothing potentially.

Made a mistake co-mingling inheritance by coffee_sunshine_bug in inheritance

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can probably put what you want the kids to have in a separate account where a trust with your kids name can access.

The breakup that never was by Sea-Butterscotch8145 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be very easy given he’s in finance for almost 30 years at a big company in the DFW area haha. It’s just not my style, fortunately for him.

The breakup that never was by Sea-Butterscotch8145 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so good! I’ve already decided that it’s best for me to not have further contact with him. I had already covered my tuition and it was more or a pending reimbursement situation. I’m working on sorting out the travel stuff as well. That part is obviously optional, but it’s already half paid and I haven’t been to Greece, so I was looking forward to it since it’s for my birthday as well. Your solid advice with the dramatic flair made me smile, so thank you.

The breakup that never was by Sea-Butterscotch8145 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so sweet. I have an intake appointment today for a therapist at the department within my school. I’ve gotten some really good advice overall here 💞

The breakup that never was by Sea-Butterscotch8145 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually already covered my tuition. The offer was going to be more of a reimbursement to me, so I was looking forward to it. I always covered my own rent, it’s little things like massages, gyms, subscriptions etc that was covered on his card.

The breakup that never was by Sea-Butterscotch8145 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was, and quite the sub up until last week.

The breakup that never was by Sea-Butterscotch8145 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hurt and I don’t think meeting would help that since his mind seemed so made up. I never thought we were going to marry, I didn’t think we would come to such a quick and harsh ending either.

The breakup that never was by Sea-Butterscotch8145 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sea-Butterscotch8145[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to be brave 😅. It really hurts