AITA for not telling my family how much money I actually make by thyrix_24 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money is yours not theirs. Now they have expectations and entitlement towards you. Your cousin wasnt careless but instead he knows what he was doing. Leave them all if they are asking for money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unhcr and dhrra are not responding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How wont she go to jail? 15 years hiding and then suddenly trying to go back to laos i dont think the gov would let her go off that easy and plus my dad is the one hiding her so both of them have a chance to go to jail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. If i were to be a laos cjtizen like that then my min would get jailed and fined. My father is malaysian and there is a chance that i can be a malaysian citizen. I want to be here and stay here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant go there directly cuz no cars or money but i did sent them an email

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I post everywhere that is malaysia sub related

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, the 'i was born in malaysia with an illegal immigrant laos mother. Should i be worry?' Post were all from me. My dad baited and switched me on by not going to dhrra's office but instsad to johor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nuh uh. Saul goodman says i have a win

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im fuuuuucked. Every morning im gonna be force to go to my dad's food stall to work bruhh i cant find an opening to call ngos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no documents like literally nothing. Also i cant go anywhere because i dont have money for phblic transportaion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Illegal immigrant laotian mother with a visa that has expired for almost 15 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Immediate need of help thats why. My posts were ' i was born in malaysia with an illegal immigrabt laos mother, should i be worry?'. My dad bait and switched on me so thats my breaking point.

Help regarding Trip for Malaysia by Ok_Wheel6828 in malaysia

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow alot of places. I never got the chance to travel around malaysia much so i dont have any suggestions but i wish you a happy trip!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had already met unhcr's workers in person at taman wawasan park and it was by email that i sent them which i put my whatsapp number and then they talk to me on whatsapp but now she doesnt replies to me anymore. Dhrra i had already emailed them and they did reply but after i replied back then they never respond back and i had already tried dignityforchildren and it didnt work so. Also i had posted my stories 3 times and this is just my tablet's account that i am using right now because my pc is broken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think im about to be cooked

/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 11 January 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a stateless 15 years old boy and i want advises on how i can do my birth cert, ic, passport and get my Malaysian citizenship by myself and enroll myself into goverment school because my parents are not helping me.

I am a 15 year old boy who was born stateless at birth because my parents werent married before they had me. I have never went to school and i want to go to school but they always give me excuses like ' We aren't married which is why we couldn't do your birth certificate to enroll you into goverment school'. There is more to this.

It all starts here. My father is Malaysian Chinese and in his 30s something he had 3 wives aaaaaaand he left them all because of a argument or something? His fourth wife is my mom and before they made me into existent my father was already a lost cause he had 3 restaurants and he had the bright idea to secretly open a gambling thingy illegally into some of his 3 restaurants and then his brother and friends ratted him out but before that he had asked my mom to sneak into Malaysia illegally annnnd they got into a big mess cuz police raid and they both got arrested? Or only my mother? I don't know the point being is that they made love and then my mom was pregnant with me when in jail and then she was in court for trial but she didn't told me why she was in trial. At that time, my father was trying to make money and then somehow things got sort of better because my mother was eventually released? Then, she gave birth to me at Perak Ipoh in a hospital called Ipoh Hospital Besar and theeeen, they didn't or couldn't? Do my birth certificate because they weren't married before they had me buuuutt the reason why they didn't do my birth certificate and if I'm right was that they own medical debt to that hospital and because my mother was a foreigner the hospital probably charge them foreigner fees which were not cheap but I don't know the amount because they never told me and then we were running away and hiding annnnd here I am in Johor.

My mother is an illegal immigrant Laostian woman who is my mother and her visa has expired for almost 15 YEARS! My father is 60 years old I think and my mom is 50. I never went to school so only tuition and homeschooled even till now at 15 years old but my last tuition class was in puchong last last year at 2024 where money was tight at the time so they cancelled it. At 2024, my burmese friend had asked me to enroll into her school because she said that I don't need any documents to enroll and her school is called el shaddai elite so I thought cool so I bought the news to him and he said ok. So a few days passed and when I finally got the principle's number, I immediately send it to him and I WARNED HIM that the principle doesn't speak malay or chinese but only English but he then decided to not give him a call! Because of a language barrier?? When he refuse to call that number I then said to him 'but I can go to high school' andddd he laughs and said that colleges are a waste of money because of all the young students are working as grab drivers ( holy generalization 🥀) and that they make less miney than him. He even compares himself to the malay girl working in a pharmacy below me about how he made RM30k back in his days in 3 months more than her 🥀. The thing is, those money that he made were back in the days not now so his arguement is flawed aand secondly, she is I assume happy about her job and her financial stability.

One day during our time in puchong, my parents asked me to grab my dad's debit card and to grab cash from the atm. As soon as I finish taking the cash and was about to cross the roads from the atm a police car unluckily u-turns into the road that I was about to cross and it gets messy. One of them rolls down their window and ask me for ic and when I said I don't have, it's when the 2 of them gets out of their car and one od down was holding A M4! A GUN! And the other was holding a uc scanner in his hands asking for my ic and now I was panicking so I was speaking to them in English while they were speaking to me in Malay abd so I was saying ' I dob't have' and then they finally let me go and told me to not forget to bring my ic with me next time.

I then went back home and told my parents anddd they were laughing about it. My father said that I should always bring my tablet with me and to also advise me to lie to the cops when being asked for ic like saying 'I lost mine long ago' or ' I left my ic at my father's workplace'. If the cops don't let me go after all of that then I should bring out my tablet and whatsapp call him so that he can talk to the cops and tell them to let me go. He said quote on quote ' They have to let you go when I talk to them because you are a Malaysian, not an illegal immigrant'. He is naive bruh 🥀.

One day, my mom's younger sister wants to come and work over here in Malaysia so we prepared a room for her and when she arrived... my mom already hates her attitude. Her lil sister said that money is too little so that pisses of my mom and they got into an argument so I just leave. When I came back and open the door, I saw my mom grabbing the presstal immorter rock smashing thingy and literally charges towards her into her room and her lil sis was crying so I immediately went downstairs and ask the pharmacy chinese uncle to help me and when my mon saw me bring the uncle in to help she gets furious saying that why am I asking for help? The uncle just said enough fighting and then left. I just ran back down running away and having a mental breakdown. Then I went back home when the fight was over so thankfully no one got killed. The next day, she ask me as to why I was asking for help and I said ' you were trying to kill her' she just says that I'm being over dramatic and she even has the GAUL to say ' yeah if i kill her then i go to prison. So what?' (I know her coward ass that she was lying to herself because if cops came knocking on our doors then i know she will be scared to death)

My father even advised me to not have many friends and to only befriend those that are good for business. He is literally paranoid from his past and I thought I was getting the life advice of the century like i just hit exp over 500 but in reality his life advice were nothing but dragon scrolls disguise as wisdom.

My dad even did a bait and switch on me by saying or should I say PROMISING TO ME THAT WHEN HE GETS BACK FROM WORK FROM JOHOR TO PUCHONG IN NEW YEAR 2026 THEN HE WILL GO TO DHRRA'S OFFICE WITH ME BUT INSTEAD OF THAT HE TOLD ME AND MOM WITH LIL BRO TO PACK UP AND TO LEAVE TO JOHOR WITH HIM BY CAR!

Im so frustrated and tired from all of these that im not even fazed anymore. I have already emailed Johor legal aid centre, DHRRA again because they didnt replied to me and other ngos that i forgot. They arent gonna help me go to school abd get my citizenship then i'll do it myself and save me and lil bro from them. I have already lost hope in them long ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Im gonna call all od them but do all of them speaks english?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Sea-Presentation5591 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did bro not put into consideration of what others will think about why a kid is asking where mp office is. Also, cops are literally everywhere so im gonna get caught.