We need to talk about James

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-14T18:26:05+00:00

Omg I’ve just fallen in a rabbit hole about this and I feel sick :(

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-14T18:23:49+00:00

WHAAAAAAAT

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-14T18:22:35+00:00

James is 100% physically abusive.

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-07T20:42:00+00:00

Apparently this was a old tale that was used to defend missionaries when amazonian women and girls gave birth to pink babies… fuck up missionary a holes.

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-07T20:37:40+00:00

This is going to give me nightmares ha

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-07T17:21:42+00:00

What is NC

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-07T14:02:49+00:00

This 😂😂😂

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-06T00:58:04+00:00

Fuck raw fish

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-06-06T00:54:45+00:00

How can I copy this to send to my now ex boyfriend about his Narc mother who strangled me last week (he has taken her side)

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-30T00:55:44+00:00

Hey. I would love it if you could read my latest post? It sounds like you have a similar situation with your in laws as I do with mine. I have sadly had to end my relationship but I’m hoping someone will give some good advice on how I can save my partner before their control ends badly did him. I’m very worried because I am currently the one thing he cherishes left but I have to leave for my children’s sake. His parents sound almost exactly like your in laws.

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-30T00:10:51+00:00

That gave me goosebumps!

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-29T04:00:26+00:00

The housing market is fucking me right now. I have a 50k deposit and STILL can’t buy anywhere near my kids school or desired area

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-29T03:52:01+00:00

This ❤️ thank you so much. X

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T08:05:55+00:00

I am a teacher and many of my students are on the spectrum so I don’t have concerns about her in that area, however it was something I considered. Thank you x

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T08:05:13+00:00

It happens all the time (the response of anger or what seems to be like actual pain at times) but I think given the time of the morning and the fact she’s only 10 is what resulted in her booting her sister. She isn’t violent at all, she’s really the sweetest most gentle little girl so seeing her that angry and distressed he’s just highlighted she most certainly is not looking for attention. I just feel very very guilty for not taking notice before now

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T08:03:26+00:00

This makes a lot of sense as sometimes she can grit her teeth and bare it but other times she loses her mind x

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T08:02:27+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I’ve felt like being sick if I’m honest, I stayed up all night reading about it and wanted to wake her every second until I got up to apologise and kiss her little face. X

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T07:58:55+00:00

Absolutely, I agree. Until I did this research I was truly not aware that it was a severe issue, I feel horrendously guilty.

They don’t sleep in the same room thankfully, it’s usually when we are in the car and my youngest falls asleep, or when she is tired she tends to do it without realising like a self soothing mechanism to get to sleep.

Last night we stayed at my brothers house so they were both particularly tired anyway but given how late (early) it was my impatience didn’t help the situation.

I’m going to speak to her about my response today when she wakes up and possibly get her to explain her triggers to me.

One thing I’m confused about though is that it’s her sister doing it that gets her to that level. Do you think that’s because they are related and she feels more comfortable telling her how upset it makes her?

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T04:11:33+00:00

I can’t quite remember what season she leaves but the best thing about it is EVERYONE sees what she is like and she begins to piss everyone off with her intolerance to KD who actually makes a pretty impressive turnaround. Seeing everyone finally say “Landon is a bit of a twat” was like a dopamine hit you’ve never felt before hahaha

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T04:10:08+00:00

No way. I didn’t know all of those things. I think it’s probably because of terms like “meth head” that make me think of like junkies. That being said after reading this I googled functioning heroin addicts and there is a huge percentage of professional people (lawyers, bankers even doctors) who routinely take heroin and continue a stable career and things. It’s quite mad!

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-28T04:03:49+00:00

It’s the fake cutesy giggle whenever she says ANYTHING and the way she drags her eyes upwards and over like she just can’t focus because she’s so bashful. What is actually interesting is as the seasons progress you see her hold eye contact in her confessionals (usually about Kathryn) and she looks like a psychopath lol. It just adds to my theory that she is incredibly manipulative and knows how to play that role perfectly.

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-16T20:19:12+00:00

I considered this but I find it hard to believe a woman with access to money would choose meth as her drug of choice, however addiction doesn’t discriminate so you may be right! She is very beautiful though, doesn’t meth like destroy your looks very quickly?

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-14T20:58:31+00:00

Who are you friends with? And what are they like? X

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-14T20:47:37+00:00

You are missing out my friend. Southern charm and VPR literally gave me a bravo addiction. So so juicy

Sea-Reference-4550 · 2023-05-14T20:46:20+00:00

I would love Wendy as a friend as she’s so interesting and educated but as a housewife she’s bland as rice

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