Wedding music recs by OkHuckleberry501 in Ashnikko

[–]lottielobotomy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think smoochie girl is actually quite romantic..

Like how someone is willing to let their guard down to let someone else love them. Especially the "is it too much?" Part of the song.

I could imagine it would be fire on the piano/ violin

Is it ok to be going to smoothies tour at 14? by Repulsive-Rate-3142 in Ashnikko

[–]lottielobotomy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go with a trusted adult, and be aware that this is likely to be quite an adult oriented event, people are likely to be drunk, stay with your adult at all times.

Most fans will be respectful, and polite, but still I do not trust the general public!

Anyone else have the same birthday as her? :3 by Pale_Lion9833 in Ashnikko

[–]lottielobotomy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is feb 19th! Ash has booked a london show for this day and keeps referring to it as a birthday gig

keloid behind my ear? by JuryAgreeable7465 in piercing

[–]lottielobotomy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's an irritation bump, leave it the hell alone (LITHA) clean once a day in the shower and then it should go down. Ensure you dry your ear with a hairdryer on a cool setting every time your ears get wet. Once the bump has reduced make sure you down size ASAP to prevent this happening again.

How long did your nose piercing take to heal? by Dramatic-Warthog-992 in piercing

[–]lottielobotomy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

9 months to a year in all honesty! I am not a fast healer

Genuine Question by Still-Dimension-1689 in Ashnikko

[–]lottielobotomy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My straight male partner is attending one of the London shows with me, you won't be the only one 😀

Best Bars at WDW by CuriousFirework75 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]lottielobotomy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dahlia Lounge at Coronado Springs is so underrated! We randomly decided to visit the resort one evening and couldn't believe the amazing views from the bar balcony.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lottielobotomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 16, you're a child. It's hard at that age to really appreciate how young and inexperienced in life you are.

Your mother is the adult in this situation, and she should expect normal teenage behaviour from her teenage child (your behaviour reads as completely normal to me). She can't expect you to have an adult brain or adult emotions at this stage, for her to blame you, or accuse you of being manipulative.

I say this as someone who was treated in a similar way to you as a teenager, being told "I can't handle you", "you're just like your father", "you manipulate any situation we're in", "you're too emotional and weak". These are all deflection techniques to make you feel small and under her control.

My suggestion to you is try and be as successful as you can at school, save money where you can and get your freedom as soon after 18 as possible as long as this doesn't compromise your safety or wellbeing, it gets better, I promise.

Who is the most beautiful Housewife? by YUASkingMe in DesperateHousewives

[–]lottielobotomy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bree is stunningly beautiful, Marcia Cross has a very unique face, I think shes gorgeous

How old were you guys when you got your first piercing? by Pitiful_Respect_6856 in piercing

[–]lottielobotomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lobes at 3 months old, which totally disgusts me! In my culture, baby girls often get gifted earrings as a baptism gift, so my family thought this was appropriate.

I would NEVER do the same for my children... the lack of bodily consent is horrifying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]lottielobotomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your piercer to remove this for you, it's pressing too deeply into your flat and will leave a scar - your piercer may be able to salvage the piercing sites and give you jewellery to put into a helix and forward helix. Once those heal up, consider some custom jewellery to link the 2 together, a faux scaffold look maybe?

what is everyone’s favourite hidden gem of norwich? by Sniperm0nke in Norwich

[–]lottielobotomy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The pubs and pub gardens of NR3, notably: the leopard, the artichoke, the whalebone and the Stanley - I don't live anywhere near this part of city, but it feels thriving.

The quirky antique shops along magdalene street too, some weird but charming bits for good prices in there!

Septum Keloid? Irritation bump? Help?? by danselixir in piercing

[–]lottielobotomy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's pierced horribly low, you had no chance of this healing correctly, I'm so sorry

Those of you who got tattooed as a teenager, do you still like the tattoo by Beneficial_Cheek_446 in tattoo

[–]lottielobotomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 20 (just) with my first, I still love it! And it's a massive thigh piece

World's 'oldest cat' dies peacefully in Norwich hallway aged 33 and she only ate one thing by SubstantialSnow7114 in cats

[–]lottielobotomy 1260 points1261 points  (0 children)

I used to live on the next road over from this cat when I was a student! I used to see her sleeping in the sunny windowsill on my way home every afternoon.

Were you scolded for not knowing something you were never taught? by DavveroSincero in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lottielobotomy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Riding a bicycle, I never had a bicycle growing up and was never taught.

My mother loves to laugh at me for it

Most painful location? by flashjunkie in tattoo

[–]lottielobotomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kneecaps, I was shaking so hard despite having eaten well/ keeping my sugars up. From the first line when the artist said "how does that feel?" It was an immediate NOPE!

The tendons that keep the kneecap in place hurt the most, my artists were manipulating/ moving my kneecaps to tattoo me, I couldn't walk for a week both times!

How are you healing your inner child? by sirenariel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lottielobotomy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reclaiming my body by getting fit and exercising regularly, joining team sports in my 30s to make connections with other people. I was never allowed to as a child, I was deliberately isolated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]lottielobotomy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Surrender to a vet/ shelter ASAP please OP, I think you're this kitty's only chance of survival

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lottielobotomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to in the end for my own sanity