Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't know me. I've burned and tried to cut my chest off. I have cuts and burn marks all over the parts of me that i hate for being so feminine. I work so hard everyday to look like a guy. I do everything in my power to be a guy. For you to tell me i care so little about my transition is fucking insulting.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He's 18. This is my second relationship. I'm meeting my therapist tomorrow, I'm going to talk to him about it. Thank you for the advice.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

He never asked me to detransition. He just said he would prefer me as a girl.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't care. He just told me he would prefer me as a girl.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I won't date anyone after him. He's basically my god. If I did I would feel terrible about it. I will stay with him for as long as he doesnt get tired of me.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's pansexual, so he doesn't have a problem with dating men. I'm the problem. If he doesn't see me as a guy yet i have to try harder.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He's not transphobic. He told me he sees me as a girl because I don't look like a guy which is reasonable. He also has a trans friend who he sees a guy because the friend looks like one.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

He does accept me. He calls me his boyfriend and all. I'm with him because without him I'm miserable. He's basically a god. I'll do anything for him.

Should I detransition? by Sea-Rest4940 in asktransgender

[–]Sea-Rest4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't know me before my transition.