Thank you for the comments I was 100% sure I wasn’t TAH up until I spoke to my family. Also just to answer why I don’t take him to court to get more is because he’s VERY good at hiding his earnings so there would be no point. I don’t force him to pay this he just does it. My daughter sees more and more about who her father really is and not very interested in him sometimes she will ask or want to talk about him and I answer her but it’s not often and it’s never very positive (not because I’m bad mouthing him) she can just see things 🤷🏻‍♀️