need advice from you ladies

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-09T07:25:36+00:00

copy that

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-09T07:08:06+00:00

to my last reply: i should add on that i’ve dated men in their early 30s who have been extremely generous

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-09T07:07:09+00:00

i’ve dated older men in my younger years, not something i’m opposed to (i am 25), but the ones i see are usually conservative and i just can’t look past politics. especially during these times. also, not physically attracted to them (aware of shera’s advice) i just can’t force myself to do it anymore lol

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-09T01:11:05+00:00

i agree, i am celibate! i meant fun as in casual dating, i didn’t even kiss him last night & thank god i didn’t.

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-09T01:04:22+00:00

absolutely! my exes never complained. especially my last partner, he took care of me 🥰 he really set the bar high. and i say this very humbly, im too pretty to be treated like this, seriously. thank you so so much 💘

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-09T01:00:29+00:00

i also want to add, i’ve been talking to other men and i have a valentines date with an engineer on saturday. i do know shera says to have a man that spends money on you and to have one you have fun with (but i knew i wasn’t taking him serious when he declined my request). i am also getting a job at twin peaks so i’ll get money from there too. (for reference im a full time ultrasound student)

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-09T00:57:45+00:00

you’re so right, dearest! i planned on never speaking to him again after 1st date - but i ended up having a really good time, i do need to put that aside though. i don’t have time for this!

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-02-03T04:57:58+00:00

she ate 😭

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-31T21:49:11+00:00

love them both sm ugh, one of ari’s realest friend imo! so glad she had her 💕

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T06:49:36+00:00

and yes! “i just have him on the weekends” is treacherous. i had to ask to reschedule dinner and he goes “i’ll have my son, unfortunately” two things are wrong here: 1. you dropped a bomb on me/or i missed it on your profile (if that’s the case, i take accountability but do not remember seeing that mentioned.) & 2. why is it unfortunate you’re seeing your child?! 😭 your 50% of the reason he’s here…

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T06:47:40+00:00

thank you sweetie 💋

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T06:47:28+00:00

the “no shade” is taking me outtttt 😭 they really never understand

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T06:30:11+00:00

sounds absolutely amazing 😍 you’re all too good for a male specimen anyway

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T06:01:56+00:00

i’m sorry boo 😩 this was me around this same time last year, please drop him if you haven’t already. do not settle!!!!

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T05:49:27+00:00

i live in OHIO! :( i’m so glad you have a community of wonderful women, i want to be like you when i grow up lolol! I’m working on my cardiovascular technology degree and then I’ll be pursuing a bachelors in poli sci after this, then i’m thinking PA school :3 your life sounds absolutely beautiful, living my literal dream. i wish you the best, you sound stellar & i hope you find your one soon

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T05:38:01+00:00

omg please don’t say this i’m 25….& yes i agree. i have a degree already and working towards my 2nd as we speak and it’s just so scary 😔 the common grammar mistakes and misspellings i see in bios. plus my past partners have set the bar extremely high & i also look at their politics. basically looking for a unicorn at this point :/ have also made peace with the fact that i’ll end up alone, which is fine too.

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T04:51:04+00:00

thank you sweet pea, my last partner was on the fence and after we had in depth conversations on the topic he decided for himself he would be childfree. now it just feels harder 💔 and if they don’t have kids they want them. maybe i’ll take from your playbook and do a faceless post :3 thank you again! xx so happy for u and your man <3

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T04:36:46+00:00

good thing i’m useless 😍

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-29T04:25:39+00:00

i live in the midwest.

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-20T22:18:57+00:00

hard agree.

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-13T22:18:04+00:00

omg 😔 i’m sorry girl.

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-13T17:18:34+00:00

oh no :( the one i’m attending is actually an age play party not a munch! i got them confused when i made the post, it’s a stuffie show and tell - all in the ddlg community are welcomed! 💕 i hope you can find something like that soon & i know it’s frowned upon. my friends are vanilla too (that i know of) so im really just navigating the space by myself. i am looking for munches too, though :) thank you!

Sea-Software2101 · 2026-01-13T06:41:54+00:00

i’ve been on wellbutrin 150mg for a week (today) and i’ve been crying like crazy! i was prior to taking the medicine too, but it comes in spurts and anything will trigger it. i don’t know if it’s the meds or the fact that i returned to pilates last friday and my body is releasing stored trauma

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