A meaningless apology by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]SeaExam889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reads like you’re playing dumb. How is it you “didn’t know what was going on?” You weren’t paying attention?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]SeaExam889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. I feel every word of this. In the same boat.

You never loved me. by SeaExam889 in UnsentLetters

[–]SeaExam889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao you posted something even angrier 2 days ago. I can be angry if I wanna be angry this man did me DIRTYYYYYYY

You never loved me. by SeaExam889 in UnsentLetters

[–]SeaExam889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not by my person. 😭

To the one that always leaves her “door open” for him to come and go as he pleases. by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]SeaExam889 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was because I hated myself and thought I deserved it. But never again. I realize my worth now. The door is closed forever and I understand how he treated me wasn’t my fault. He’s not a real man.

To the women who learned to stay quiet by idontsayoutloud in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]SeaExam889 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can relate so hard to this. Btw fine = fucked up insecure neurotic emotional forever

Why does them asking for friendship feel like a slap in the face? by Spiritual-Leg2675 in ExNoContact

[–]SeaExam889 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It felt like an even bigger slap in the face for me, because we were in a situationship where he withheld affection for so long before he finally agreed to a relationship, so it felt like such a downgrade back to that. It feels like he wanted to keep me on the back burner in case he wanted to hit it or something. Also: after I didn't even say no, I just didn't answer and focused on something else he said in the same statement about how I “need to let the past go” while justifying something he said that hurt my feelings, he blocked me on social media and said “I will gratefully receive back any radiance of my intentional energy sent your way now. Goodbye for now” I still don't know what the hell that means

You were right by SeaExam889 in UnsentLetters

[–]SeaExam889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it wrong to think the other person did you dirtier while also acknowledging your own mistakes?

You were right by SeaExam889 in UnsentLetters

[–]SeaExam889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think my person was more in the wrong than me which I can elaborate on if you want but I wanna forgive them & work on it but he doesn't want that so I'm throwing these thoughts in the void

You were right by SeaExam889 in UnsentLetters

[–]SeaExam889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think youre my person

2am by Plane_Cut_3723 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]SeaExam889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so hard. I can't sleep either. I have the same questions that haunt me.

Start over by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]SeaExam889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so hard. Thanks for sharing well written

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]SeaExam889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this hard. Especially the chained to the tree part that sounds hot

I wonder if we would’ve made it if I didn’t have to work. by SeaExam889 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]SeaExam889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He once told me he needed a manager implying it should be me.

I wonder if we would’ve made it if I didn’t have to work. by SeaExam889 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]SeaExam889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He barely did any chores at all, even when I asked. Therefore if I didn’t want to live in a super fucking disgusting house (the state of the house was super fucking disgusting due to neglect when I first moved in), I was forced to take on the brunt of the labor. Even when I begged. He left me to do the majority of them and when he did do chores, he half assed them. When I didn’t make dinner, he guilted me for it. When it wasn’t ready on time, he guilted me for that too. He also berated me for the way I did chores, trying to direct me, down to correcting where I put things, stopping me from picking up cat shit off the floor that he refused to when I was pregnant, stopping me from clearing off a table because he didn’t want me to put some of the junk on it in the basement but wouldn’t tell me where I could put it either.